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Xer0Man Xer0Man 18-21, M 9 Answers Jul 6, 2013 in Struggles

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Yeah they might have a decent reason like 'delaygratication' said.<br />
One thing I would say is don't let it get to you. Solitude can be a state of freedom and individualism.. Maybe adopt a don't 'call me I'll call you' approach. <br />
If they're not missing your company or only calling you when they need a favour...they possibly might not be your 'friend'.

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I'd be angry. I might not get in touch with them for a few days but if the reason's legit then i'll forgive them.

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This first thing you should do is find out what happened. They may have had a legitimate reason. <br />
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It is however, still possible that they outright ditched you & if that's the case I'm sorry to hear that, I definitely know how it feels. <br />
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One of the most important realizations of my adult life was that everyone has separate lives & typically people hold themselves at the top of their own priority lists (rightfully so in most cases). Alot of people dont want to admit this but it's just a fact of life we're all guilty of. Unfortunately in our universal quest to take care of #1 we can sometimes be a little too selfish & hurt others along the way.<br />
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It may be hard to hear but if your friends continually ditch you or dont put any effort into your friendship thats the #1 sign that they dont actually care. I don't know how close you are with these people but it may be a good idea to simply ask what's up. <br />
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If you aren't comfortable talking to them about it or you cant for some other reason it might be time to consider moving on from them. There's no need to have a big falling out or drama if it gets to this point. After all, all of you were close at some point I assume? You don't want to part ways on a negative note. <br />
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Typically what I do when I've decided any acquaintance or friend is done is just stop putting out any effort to contact or socialize with with them. Sometimes I never hear from them again and sometimes I get a random call later down the road from a friend with a crazy story that explains why they weren't available ;-)

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And what happens if not all of them but a single person didn't want to tell you or perhaps didn't want you there. But even when the group figured it out they merely sat back pretending the problem wouldn't come back at them

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Doesn't sound like much of a friend to begin with.

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No...puzzled maybe, but not angry.

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Yes you should be.. that's so rude and mean.. i don't have a problem if my friends hang out without me but if they invite me and ditch me, that's messed up.

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I would be angry and hurt

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