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What do you guys really think love is? how do you view it, and do you believe in the story book version?

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  1. berangere - 66-70 years old - female

    Posted by berangere Mar 3rd, 2013 at 6:49AM

    Love is allowing the other person to be the best they can be, let the other person be who they are meant to be,let them grow even if it means they outgrow you and leave you,love is letting them go.If you can love someone that much, they would more than likely never leave you.

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  2. Shatteredglassz - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by Shatteredglassz Mar 3rd, 2013 at 6:52AM

    yes this is true, but what if you do all that and it is still a one sided ordeal? then were your calculations on love wrong? or is the person wrong for leaving?

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  3. berangere - 66-70 years old - female

    Reply by berangere Mar 3rd, 2013 at 4:27PM

    May be the person is not mature enough to recognise that kind of selfless love,or their priorities are wrong,they might be more attracted to the outside(good look),than to true and lasting qualities.

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  4. Birdie123 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Birdie123 Mar 3rd, 2013 at 6:30AM

    Love is when you can have contentment by not being with that person. Being able to not be selfish and letting them be happy. In my opinion :)

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  5. Shatteredglassz - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by Shatteredglassz Mar 3rd, 2013 at 6:33AM

    so you believe in the * If you love something set it free?

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  6. Birdie123 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Birdie123 Mar 3rd, 2013 at 6:54AM

    Yea and if "it" comes back "it" loves you too

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  7. easternshorebuzz - 70+ years old

    Posted by easternshorebuzz Mar 3rd, 2013 at 6:27AM

    chemical reaction combining testosterone and estrogen. along with a familiarity in behavior patterns that you grew up with (ie strong mother weak father or the opposite)

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  8. Shatteredglassz - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by Shatteredglassz Mar 3rd, 2013 at 6:29AM

    yes, true i already knew that, i was looking for a more psychological approach but i thank you for your comment nonetheless :D

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  9. tenente - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by tenente Mar 3rd, 2013 at 6:25AM

    love is wanting to be a better person for her

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  10. Gene86 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Gene86 Mar 3rd, 2013 at 6:24AM

    I think love is different for everyone. Funny you should ask that. My husband always say's stop reading that crap your gonna want me to be perfect, when I'm not. And that's just is, love is not a story book, its real, and imperfect. Its ALL about the flaws, its about accepting, and even loving each other for who you are. Ups and down, and all arounds. So no... its even better.

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  11. Shatteredglassz - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by Shatteredglassz Mar 3rd, 2013 at 6:28AM

    never heard a truer statment

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  12. Gene86 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Gene86 Mar 3rd, 2013 at 6:30AM

    Thank you, I did try.

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