My husband finally had to tell his sister to stop calling him to get her afterwards. It was too hard on our kids to see thier aunt like that. She didn't leave until she was ready. She is doing really well now.
Remind her she has options, & yes she will leave when she's ready. As long as she isn't dead first!
Get the F--- away and stay away!!! Do you want your family to know that you were killed by a crazy man.<br />
That's why I got away from my x, because I didn't want my little grand daughter to know I was killed by a crazy man.
You don't tell her anything. You just need to be there for her. When she's ready, she'll leave.