What do you think about having a relation with a married man or a woman?

Asked By: Jessica6wants6to6talk 18-21, F 2 months ago

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Posted by shooflysmoz Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:05PM

I'm all for it. Peole have to understand that the woman (and especially man) has needs. Sexual needs! It is heartbreaking when a beautiful older married woman is not getting the satisfaction she deserves from her husband. So if its purely sexual between a married spouse and some other walking sex toy then its okay. (It should be like that since ancient ******* civilization lived by those rules). Also, swingers have sex with other peoples' spouses all the time! When will modern society grow up and realize that people sometimes just need to ****, get ******, and have several ******* from different people regardless of marriage?

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Reply by Jessica6wants6to6talk Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:12PM

so right ppl have needs and am not only talking about sex am talking about care love.... when these three things are missing in a relation of course anyone will search for a new person who take more care
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Reply by shooflysmoz Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:26PM

Exactly! This also comes from how stupid people are when it comes to relationships. Theres so much emphasis on 'passion' when, in reality, relationships last forever when there's compassion and compatability on top of passion. Being passionate about eachother is good, but if thats the only emotion, then its just lust. Also, theres this new thing where you're not supposed to marry your best friend (both men and women are guilty of this). That just translates into: "Why would I marry someone who cares deeply about me when I could marry some hot fling I just met?" And people wonder why theres so many divorces in todays society.
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Posted by bijouxbroussard Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:22PM

The surest way to heartbreak, from my perspective.

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Reply by Jessica6wants6to6talk Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:28PM

ya thats the bad part
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Posted by Scarcollection Mar 18th, 2013 at 4:15AM

I already had one and in my experience: it takes a lot of sacrifices and you're simply disadventaged. Usually this ends up badly.

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Reply by Jessica6wants6to6talk Mar 18th, 2013 at 10:09AM

and did he stay with you or he chose his wife?
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Reply by Scarcollection Mar 18th, 2013 at 10:20AM

I left him when he started treating me poorly. Way too late though, I put up with so much crap from him. I ended it when he told me I was "just his girl on the side". Now we're just friends and he's improving on his flaws, so that's good for him. :-)
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Posted by lessthanhero Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:27PM

Eh, grab your happiness where you can since its in such short supply these days.

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Reply by Jessica6wants6to6talk Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:35PM

ok i liked that answer mad me feel bad
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Reply by lessthanhero Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:42PM

I commented from my perspective, not saying all should do this.
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Posted by blonde10 Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:20PM

For me its all or nothing so I have no interest in someone who is attached to another. I have been attracted to married men but its not something I ever pursued. I dont care to make judgments on others decisions -their choice is theirs alone.

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Posted by BluesKing Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:10PM

It's a personal choice of those involved. I'm no angel myself, and have been both the married partner and the one with someone who was married. To each their own.

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Posted by blingblogbloop Mar 17th, 2013 at 5:46PM

pff asking for bullshit drama and im not here to pick up or clean up anyones mess.

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Reply by Jessica6wants6to6talk Mar 17th, 2013 at 5:55PM

but what if you fell in love and he was ready to leave his wife for you
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Reply by blingblogbloop Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:53PM

thats was they all say, then what youll be the nxt in line so when he gets tired of u hell just move to the nxt peice of ***, i wouldnt trust some one like him
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Posted by hurtandconfussed Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:27PM

i don't think it's fair to the person married to the one man or woman having the affair because my husband is having an affair and the other woman is having his child and i know it but have no real proof he lies to me about it all the time i just think that you (whoever your are) should think about how you would feel if your husband or wife was cheating on you.

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Reply by Jessica6wants6to6talk Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:34PM

yes you're right it is hard but i really think that in most cases its both the husband and the wife fault... they both should care about each other or else you will prefer a warmer shoulder to cry on
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Reply by hurtandconfussed Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:53PM

then you should get a divorce or a legal separation before you sleep with someone else
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Posted by silentjay9 Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:27PM

i would not do this

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Posted by Dilshans1982 Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:26PM

It is fun to have a clandestine affair.

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Posted by ladyryan Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:13PM

Time consuming, anxieties/jealousy, the passion/thrill of being caught and not caught. Anything could be unstable.

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Posted by Ambivilent Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:13PM

I think it's stupid, selfish, unaware of consequences, and immature. I can't think of any more adjectives, but you get the point.....

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Posted by burytheroses Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:12PM

it's wrong.

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Reply by shooflysmoz Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:26PM

Why?
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Reply by burytheroses Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:51PM

because they are married, what makes you think it's right. when a person gets married they vow to be with that person.
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Posted by yulico Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:08PM

married man? no interest to me, just like unmarried man. but woman? well, if lesbian trapped in unhappy marriage? but i think i am too young for married people anyway.

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