write it all out in exhaustive detail, get every little tiny thought and feeling off your chest..... light a match...... then burn it. Even say a silent incantation while you do it offering the negative emotion up into the ether and go far away from you (If that's your thing) It is very cathartic.<br />
Trust me, It will serve no purpose to send the letter.
a bit late after 4months move on
Write the letter, then burn it - don't send it, he won't care. :(
I honestly think that's not the best way to go about that. In person says the most. A letter is a one way street that isn't really fair to either of you.
i think it is a good idea to write it. i write stuff to my ex.. but i dont give it to her.. so i would say maybe consider NOT sending it. write it for you.