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21 Answers to "What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their relationships?"

  1. Jones47 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by Jones47 Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:45PM

    That they can change their spouse.

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  2. HornyOldMan - 61-65 years old

    Reply by HornyOldMan Dec 20th, 2012 at 6:17AM

    Hi Jones, You've had some good life experiences. It took me a long time to learn that I cannot change another person on this earth. We each have to see in ourselves a need fo change before we can or will. I know of people who knew that their propective spouses had problems and issues but believed that they could change them in a variety of ways. Never worked. You may can rule another by fear but the one being ruled has not changed, merely complied. I can only change me.

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  3. Jones47 - 61-65 years old - male

    Reply by Jones47 Dec 20th, 2012 at 11:20AM

    I don't know how good the life experiences are, but I try to pass on the knowledge I have learned, especially from mistakes. I also, try to learn from the mistakes of others. We can never live long enough to make all the mistakes ourself and learn from them.

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  4. Frazzill - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Frazzill Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:44PM

    forgetting to cherish the other and treat them with tenderness, kindness and admiration.

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  5. AlexaW - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by AlexaW Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:43PM

    Telling too much too quickly. Starting things too quickly. The exploration is often taken to fast. I have found that out as of late.

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  6. MrNash - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by MrNash Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:44PM

    I agree....

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  7. KingofSwords - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by KingofSwords Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:41PM

    1. They don't listen.
    2. They don't communicate.

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  8. HornyOldMan - 61-65 years old

    Reply by HornyOldMan Dec 20th, 2012 at 6:22AM

    Not being able to communicate can be a big problem. Communication does not mean just making noise with your mouth. It is being open minded and willing to listen to the other side's views and opinions and the other side doing the same. Each may change his or her view points to some extent or calmly agree to disagree. This applies to marriages, other personal relationships and business.

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  9. mejj - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by mejj Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:55PM

    When they cease to
    realise,
    ask,
    accept,
    communicate,
    &
    tend to their requirements.

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  10. Classicality7 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Classicality7 Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:47PM

    Not knowing themselves before getting involved with another person and/or knowing themselves, but putting forth a false front during the dating phase.

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  11. Derangedjdub - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Derangedjdub Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:45PM

    being high maintenance

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  12. grayday104 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by grayday104 Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:42PM

    Rushing

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  13. Stephen1967 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Stephen1967 Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:41PM

    getting married!

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  14. cutie2christy - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by cutie2christy Dec 17th, 2012 at 9:34PM

    getting pregnent with in the first year of dating

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  15. GnatFree - 22-25 years old

    Posted by GnatFree Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:51PM

    That there's just one thing they're doing wrong and EVERYTHING will be better.

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  16. lizabee - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by lizabee Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:50PM

    Trying to parent.

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  17. valentina100 - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by valentina100 Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:47PM

    Not listening,take each other for granted and lying of course

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  18. Bluebirds777 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Bluebirds777 Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:46PM

    Different spins on trust....for which, IMO, there is no gray area.

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  19. elifree - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by elifree Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:46PM

    take each other for granted.

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  20. lovelywings - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by lovelywings Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:42PM

    Being possessive

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  21. gooseyloo - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by gooseyloo Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:42PM

    Having babies!!!!!

    Also, I think a lot of men do not communicate. And a lot of women have unrealistic expectations.

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  22. roseofthedevilsgarden - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by roseofthedevilsgarden Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:41PM

    bitching a lot

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  23. inChange - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by inChange Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:41PM

    an affair

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  24. MrNash - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by MrNash Dec 17th, 2012 at 8:44PM

    a hot one at that!

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  25. monaroo97071 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by monaroo97071 Dec 18th, 2012 at 4:28AM

    To me, overly clingy. Lying. Lack if trust.

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