What do you think of monogamy versus not being monogamous ?
16 Answers to "What do you think of monogamy versus not being monogamous ?"
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I'm naturally monogamous. When I love someone, I don't even notice anyone else. It'd be nice to find someone else like that.
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In my opinion, the best sex is monogamous sex. Being totally committed to one person and having the same commitment in return is the fr
amework for total openness. I couldn't live any other way. Like (2)
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I am in a very similar situation, I say it's up to you, me I do what I have to to fulfill my needs and desires
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I hear ya... I just don't think I can make it another 2 years... And that would b a shame because we really do get along pretty well and I would hate to lose my friend . I guess I'm still trying to figure out how everyone can remain unaffected by the change I feel comingLike (1)
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I understand that, for me it's been 21/2 years and although I love her I just need physical stimulation beyond having to ********** on webcam or something
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I know one thing, be honest! So many people lie about monogamy and have no intentions of one partner.
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Yes being dishonest is def the toxic part , I have a bf who used to b able but now is unable to perform. I Have not "had any" in almost 2 years and he says he would b okay if I had my needs met elsewhere but I can't really bring myself to c how there would b a good outcome in that since woman are very emotionally vulnerable through intimacy
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Just a thought, maybe if your partner was involved with your needs? And maybe you could open your boundaries? May spark your current partner?
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I'm currently in the first monogamous relationship in my life, whereas I've always been poly, and there are advantages and disadvantages to both.
I'm a very non-attaching person, I don't easily commit, so poly worked well for me because it obliged the others to limit their clinginess as well. It's true however that in a poly relationship there is always a hint of suspicion, especially when you aren't full-blown poly. If all the people involved are involved with each other it's different, but if that's not the case... not all people can deal with possible jealousy equally well.
In a way, monogamy is a gift. Foremost you have to consider yourself worthy enough to "be enough" for a man/woman, and then you also choose to devote all your attention to one person. That puts you in a very vulnerable position, and it's very important that your partner doesn't take your monogamy for granted.Like (2)
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Monogamy is a great social construct it lets two people provide complete near-constant support and love to each other.
Heres a great vid on that
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uH_rIT0juiMLike (2)
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I think if you dont want to be monogamous then you havent found the right person yet. I cant imagine enjoying sleeping with anyone other than my wife anywhere near as much
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She's a lucky woman
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i am the lucky one
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Sex freedom means making a free choice, I see no freedom when a person has only one choice. I say this because for many people monogamy implies exclusive sex. I believe in sex freedom
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Mostly interesting for ape/monkey studies, not so much interesting with people since then I stop having a clue xD
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Monogomy...i don't have to worry about "who' i told what.
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I never thought I would be monogomous until I met my current bf of 4 years. I have no desire to stray just because I love him so much =)
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monogamy means earth and moon. neat and clean.
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Comfortable, secure, cozy vs. fun, exciting, insecure. Depends on what you prefer.
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Simpler.
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I prefer it.
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Posted by jojobead 1 Dec 18th, 2012 at 12:56PM
I've been questioning monogamy. I feel an attraction to more than one person so why tie myself to one? But at the same time people need someone for the long run of there life.
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Reply by sweetromance2 Dec 18th, 2012 at 1:42PM
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Reply by Crimsonorchid Dec 18th, 2012 at 1:49PM
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