Jeez, they can be so much work, but I do give it a shot.
If someone is very insecure, I of course would feel badly ...we can all identify at one point or another, or many, about feeling insecure- maybe with some , the air of "insecurity" might show a bit more. I think more patience is simply called for that- that is what they are needing; it is not that they need to be treated SO differently, but I might be more sensitive toward them about certain things. <br />
It doesn't take much on my part, and might help them feel maybe a bit more secure at the moment=)
I try to understand why
I try to mess with them a little, they are easy to tease : ) once they can stand up for themselves, then you have something to work with!