There are other ways to give each other pleasure.
And I'm an expert!
I want someone who will treat me good and respect me truthfully sex dont matter
I might matter very much to HIM. I have a woman who is a fantastic sex partner for me, and I havent had an erection in almost 20 years! But I DO love to eat *****!
I think I'll start off with, "its not you, its me!"
First thought is I'm safe w someone who can't get it up to even make the moves on me... safe company is always the best..
They can still make 'moves' on you...
I would be completely understanding. Iv come across some men with "different" problems.....and I would try getting to the bottom of whatever was going on! I do not think "its all in their head".
The first think that would come to mind is what in the h.e. double hockey sticks did i get myself into, to not hurt his feelings I would probably have sex with him, and never contact him again.
So, you would have sex with him and then no contact.
What does this say about you?
I think logically. Maybe it's stress, maybe they just aren't into me, maybe they had trouble with the condom( took too long to put it on) maybe they have health issues. Not necessarily his fault.