Good question mate. I joined this site yesterday and found that there a lot of caring people with real skills in helping others to resolve issues. As a student counsellor it gives me the opportunity to gain feedback from those I have thus far tried to genuinely help but I do so with caution.<br />
There seems to be those (I have since discovered) that are far more desperate for the attention rather than an answer to their problem or abstract observations. Like facebook (in my opinion) its a forum for pretense but I really see a humanitarian aspect here that Facebook lacks. For some its just a way of passing time and for others a real need to get answers, either way is fine but I'm here to share with a genuine desire to learn and to give back. I guess its about having the patience to know the difference.<br />
Its only early days for me but my wish is to strike up meaningful contact with real people from all over the world about common issues and to have a laugh a long the way but I do tread carefully as I tend to be an idealist rather than a realist.<br />
I guess it can be whatever you want it to be. Be patient, I'm sure there are a few jewels in this crown.
OMG where do I begin........when I first came on here, I wrote out all my fantasies, etc., etc., and it was a REAL catharsis for me!!! I felt so relieved....and I didn't have to pay a shrink!!
I found that many others have the same thoughts and fantasies, etc., that I do.
I can NEVER express my deep fondness for this site!!!
I bet I entered over half a dozen stories/fantasies, etc., & it felt SO GOOD to get it all off my chest.
And even better when I got a few replies from those who were either in the same boat or who shared my feelings, etc.
HOORAY FOR EP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nope. that wont work. You'll have to take your clothes off.
I like it here. It fills a space
It passes the time love...simple as that!
It's my go to procrastinator device.
It shows how good, bad and ugly this world is. Imagine if it was a movie ?
Support from people i'll never have to see face to face, so i can be more open n truthful, without feeling judged by facials.