From my short life he is trying to get to you. The men I've been around just are not as committed as they should be, most are looking for a fling more often than not, friend or not. Just my take and its probably worth what you paid for it. When I found out one guy I was with was married I asked why, his reply was was a nonchalant a stiff **** has no conscience.
Oh sorry if that offended
Im a little person I under 3 feet tall so I look up to see peeple