He really doesn't trust you, he just wants to control you.
I means that he doesn't trust you.
What it means is that he says one thing but does the opposite. Liars do this. Criminals do this. Pla<x>yers do this. Anyone who has something to hide does it.<br />
What should you do about it? Whatever you want to do! I mean that. It's your life and you know yourself and him better than I do. <br />
But if it were me in your shoes, I'd break up with him and not even be friends with him anymore. I'd give myself a year to get over him and then I'd start dating someone new when I'm ready. I would avoid all contact with him because he may be very persuasive and this would interrupt your get-over-him phase which you'll need.
He doesn't trust you. <br />
If he trusted you. he would take your word rather then assume what is happening.
The one time my man was wasted he kept crying and begging me not to leave. The guy doesn't trust me though. I've stopped hanging out with friends just so he'd STFU and it still didn't work because I speak to people at work. Always asking "What did you talk about?" Unless it's someone he doesn't like. Then he just rolls over what I'm saying about that person with whatever he can come up with. I'm no help to you lol all I did was vent.