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What does it mean when a guy asks a girl to go out for a coffee? and they are not even friends.?

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He's being careful. Checking out personality, compatibility without calling it a date. Pretty good idea too.No pressure and anything can happen.
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Posted Jan 2nd, 2009 at 3:03PM
it means the guy thinks the girl is cute and wants to get to know her. He is simply cutting the stupid phase of asking other people about the girl instead of finding out himself. This is a smart guy. i need one of these.....
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
It means he wants to be friends and see how it goes.
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
TRW already said it perfectly. Don't over think this....
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
he wants to know if he will still love you even when you have coffee breath.
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
Fine. It probably means what you think. but the real question are why do you wanna take her to coffee ? and
what you gonna talk to her ?
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
it means there was obviously something he liked about her that interested him and he wants to find out more about her :)
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
She wants to get to know him....*sigh*....obviously. Good luck.
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
It means he wants to get to know her better.
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
it means that he wants to get to know the girl.
is she as wholesome as she appears to be?
does she have the shine in her soul as her smile?
is she the woman he sees her to be?

coffee is just an excuse for getting comfortable :)
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
There is evidently something about her that he likes and is interested in getting to know her. He just asked her out in a non- threatening way to "test the waters".
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
Oh this is great! A love is born and it's hidden behind asking silly things ... I hope he turns out to be as great as I think he's gonna be, and I hope you meet his expectation. Please do keep us updated.
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
In his mind it's probably the start of something and don't we all search for that sometime?
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