You may be long gone, and no longer curious about this guy. But I am a compulsive tidier. A guy can like you a lot and still not like you enough to overcome their confusion, their belief that there is a better fit for them out there somewhere. A guy can miss you and your company, but still want something else. This is good information to have. You deserve a guy who likes you a lot, and believes he will like you more in the future. You deserve a guy who IS happy right now. You deserve a guy who arranges his life so he doesn't have to miss you. And while you are trying to figure out this confused guy, you aren't available to meet the guy you deserve.