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What does it mean when a man tells you he loves you and then he gets mad at someone and won't say it to you?

My man is pissed off at these other guys the situation has absolutly nothing to do with me so why all of a sudden he wouldn't say it to me????
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I don't think too many people want to tell anyone they love then when they are mad, to they?? I know if I'm pissed at someone the last thing I want to do is get all lovey with people. I'm thinking your man's actions are not personal towards you so don't assume they are.
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Posted Sep 19th, 2009 at 10:00AM
He's preoccupied. He wants to rip some heads off (metaphorically speaking). Love takes a back seat to that.

Tell him you know he's riled up and angry with so-and-so at the moment but you just want to know that he still loves you.

If you say that he'll probably mellow for a second and say "I love you" and maybe give you a hug, but he won't be diverted from the present situation.

Your man is a warrior. He's fighting a battle. Just let him know that you are waiting for him when he returns from battle (so to speak).
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Posted Sep 17th, 2009 at 12:03PM
Men need their space.... no offense to you but some things they keep to themselves. But I'm no guy and if you keep asking him to tell you, well that won't help... He has to share because he wants to...

I was married to my ex for many years...... something happened one night, he got mad at his best friends, I don't know why. I didn't ask. When I divorced him. They told me why he got mad.... That was 17 years later.
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Posted Sep 17th, 2009 at 12:18PM
Sounds like he is PISSED OFF to me. Give him space. His rage is consuming him and he is not thinking straight. I would not worry about it. I am sure that he loves you. :)
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Posted Sep 17th, 2009 at 12:42PM
it means hes a douche bag
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Posted Sep 17th, 2009 at 10:36PM
Time for him to go!....Sounds like he could be N A S T Y!
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Posted Sep 19th, 2009 at 9:58AM
Maybe he wasn't feeling love at the time. His anger was overwhelming him. I don't think that this is necessarily a reflection on you. Some people just have to be actively feeling it to say it. I know I'm like that. I refuse to proclaim love on demand if I'm not feeling it. It doesn't mean that the love is gone, it just means I'm feeling something else at the time.
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