There are two songs you should listen to that pretty much explain it all.
When a Man Loves A Woman
Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman
If you're a gentleman and treat her like this you should have no problem finding a girl.
If you are no good, change
You will grow in confidence if you pursue your interests .
Then meeting someone will just happen
There is someone for everyone,
just be yourself ,
you are welcome
love and respect
Be your cheerful self and don't be afraid to ask!