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What does this mean? A boy I don't really know (but he is my crush) sent me a message, then when I replied, he didn't.

He is a class higher than me, we know each other exist but haven't talked. He sent me a message on facebook with no real matter why have sent it. I replied, he did, I did, then he never replied (though my message had a question in!). I sent a new one a week later, he replied with two messages asking me something, when I replied, nothing. I don't want to send too many messages if he doesn't answer first, but still, I like him. I don't see why he wrote in the first place if he is not interested??

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    StaceyNight - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by StaceyNight Feb 5th, 2013 at 4:02PM

    He's playing a game, to get you to run after him.

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  1. CheMaLi - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by CheMaLi Feb 18th, 2013 at 6:17PM

    yah that's right

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11 Answers to "What does this mean? A boy I don't really know (but he is my crush) sent me a message, then when I replied, he didn't."

  1. FlauntTheImperfections - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by FlauntTheImperfections Feb 5th, 2013 at 4:04PM

    Do yourself a favor and don't allow facebook into any part of your relationships. It is not a reliable source for understanding emotion when communicating. There is also the chance that someone else used their account while hanging out just to mess with you, etc. FACEBOOK BAD

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  2. Obiats - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by Obiats Feb 5th, 2013 at 4:07PM

    That is what I initially thought, that I'd never start talking with someone through facebook, but then he started...

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  3. FlauntTheImperfections - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by FlauntTheImperfections Feb 5th, 2013 at 4:09PM

    My point was you don't really even know if it was him. Or if he wrote with a bunch of other guys watching so he could mess with you, or if he was serious. It isn't the right media for that. Do things face to face. Don't loose your physical connection with people. Confront them person to person when you have to. Don't use FB for that kind of stuff. I hope your crush does actually like you but I wouldn't worry or consider anything I hear or see on FB seriously.

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  4. onwayout - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by onwayout Feb 5th, 2013 at 4:04PM

    He might be interested, but he's too scared to move beyond messages right now. He likes to know you're interested, but he's not willing to up the stakes. If he's not man enough to take it further with you, I'd forget about his sorry a** and find yourself a real man.

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  5. DcreativeBUG - 22-25 years old

    Posted by DcreativeBUG Feb 5th, 2013 at 4:03PM

    Maybe he knows you like him and he is just playing with you. Keep it cool. Reply when he does and in school when he looks at you only then give a small smile. Nothing too loud. A curt smile with a nod will do.

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  6. Fenally - 18-21 years old

    Posted by Fenally Feb 5th, 2013 at 4:03PM

    I suggest you go to speak to this boy in person, rather than depending on facebook to chat with him.

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  7. gumbone - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by gumbone Apr 6th, 2013 at 12:34AM

    His girlfriend or someone hack his account or used his phone to message you to laugh at you or hurt you. If it is a joke he is in on **** him once and dump his @ss!

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  8. uklost - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by uklost Feb 5th, 2013 at 4:09PM

    Hes testing you play it cool,or maybe hes been put in jail and he cant lol

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  9. jackjjackson - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by jackjjackson Feb 5th, 2013 at 4:07PM

    He lost his phone?

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  10. PinksWoman - 61-65 years old

    Posted by PinksWoman Feb 5th, 2013 at 4:05PM

    It only means that he is shy, it is up to you to make the first move now. Tell him you like him and would like to go out with him, then let things develop

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  11. Obiats - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by Obiats Feb 5th, 2013 at 4:11PM

    I think telling him I like him would just mess everything up wouldn't it? It would be maybe a bit too straight forward. I once told a boy I liked him and it was a HUGE mistake, so now I'm afraid of doing the same mistake again...

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  12. PinksWoman - 61-65 years old

    Reply by PinksWoman Feb 5th, 2013 at 4:13PM

    Okay, just talk with him for now, sound him out a little bit. You will know soon enough if he likes you and if you are really attracted to him

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  13. KeezyDerp - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by KeezyDerp Feb 5th, 2013 at 4:04PM

    He's prob taking a poop

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  14. PseudoNymph - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by PseudoNymph Feb 5th, 2013 at 4:04PM

    He's an idiot. They all are. Unfortunately, there's no right way to enter into this 'game'. You have to decide if he's worth playing for, because it can be a bumpy ride with boys.

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