Move on!!!! He's an jerk! It takes him 3 yrs to figure out he's not sure he wants to be with you? Hold your head up high and meet someone who is sure they want to be with you.
Allow me to translate......I wanna wear another girl like a feedbag but you wait here and keep the house clean and the plants watered
It Probably means he wants to try for someone else but wants to Hang on to you in case it doesn't work out. If someone told me they needed a Break from me for a few weeks,I would give it to them for LIFE. :)
Ok my dear you are not going to like this but your fella is just not that into you! Doesn't mean you're not fantastic, just means he thinks he can say that and do whatever and that you will still be there when he comes around. Hmmmm?! If it were me I'd let him know if that's what he wants to do you will cut him loose and go about things without him. It might hurt or but girl you deserve to be cherished not begging. Wouldn't you agree?
Yes you do deserve to be cherished! Good for you for standing up for yourself. As your heart heals be kind to yourself. In time, a great guy will be attracted to this "new", self respected girl!
First of all, show yourself some self respect. No one is allowed to treat you this way, verbally. Second of all, my bf after three years literally told me that he was not sure if he wanted us to stay together ( looks like three years is not enough) and said that if I wanted to break up, we could. He wanted just to be "on a break". But seriously, someone who gives you the option to get out of the relationship has second thoughts towards you and the whole involvement. I cant decide for you nor to advice you something, but in my case, since the door was left open for me, I got out. I met someone else shortly after and I dont regret it for not even a minute. Looking back at that situation when you love someone but that someone does not love you back the same amount or disregards your feelings...such a person does not deserve your attention and your time. Interestingly, now that I am with someone else, my ex is so insistent as he has never been. But everyone has a chance in life and he did not take it when offered. Well, this ship has sailed. Good luck and keep you head up!
He's shopping for a new piece but he wants to keep you in the wings in case it doesn't work out. Any lay beats no lay. He'll play the guilt game to keep you in line but dump you hard if the next one offers him something better. Old game, watched it play out a dozen or more times. Cut your losses and walk out and never look back.
In my experience, being told that they "needed a break" meant that they wanted to get out of the house and do what they wished and keep me dangling on a string. It ended up that she left me for one of our best friends.<br />
My suggestion is to move on.
He sounds like a charmer. He hasn't got the requisite spinal column or decency to tell you directly. Assume the relationship is over. The sooner you can accept that the sooner you can move on.
It's over, time to move on...what he did was a classic for guys to do when they want to break up and move on....You need to do the same, you deserve better.
move on...don't worry about him
you need to move on.if you wait on him and if he dosen't show up you will have anger at your self.dump him first.stick to it!!