What drives you? What (primarily) motivates you in life?
(a) Friedrich Nietzsche's « will to power » (domination / to be better than everyone else)
(b) Sigmund Freud's « will to pleasure » (enjoy life / experience life to the fullest)
(c) Victor Frankl's « will to meaning » (finding one's purpose / reason for existence)
p.s. Looking for love often means either you're either: (a) seeking attention; (b) seeking gratification; or (c) seeking assurance − which corresponds to the above three.