I know what pain of deception is , what I do is , commit the pain and the deceptive person into God's hands. I believe that God is a God of justice too, and the ex's hurt will come back to bite him for sure. People can not treat other honest people like ****, and be stroke their dirty egos out of it. If you were honest in a relation, and you believe in God, then just leave it to Him to avenge.
Trust in this Karma will come back around, its a beautiful thing. Thats why I never hold a grudge
I just sit back and watch as life takes its course.
You're hostage to your loss...
give up the past NOW!... or you'll NEVER have a future
Probably not in this life. This world is a world that helps cheaters and the wicked to prosper. It's not until we meet our maker that we come face-to-face with the reality of what we have done.
I'm sorry you got hurt. I know that pain.
I Promise U he will feel it, but he won't show it. What u do to someone else is always bound to come back and hunt u down.. I've been down that road i know.
It's possible. He may even feel worse. In any event, nevermind, what he's feeling just be glad you're rid of him. Hope things work out better next time around. :)
When you meet someone else, it will help to ease the pain. Time has a way of healing. As far as your cheating ex, he may just not care so therefore won't feel the pain. But some men take longer to grow up and perhaps later in life he will realize what he did to you. I'm sorry you had to go through this.
You are a strong young lady and I believe by now you found some happiness. Its not a waste of time, however, you may mistrust the next one. He sounds like he has Peter Pan syndrome...google it.
THANK YOU! Peter Pan Syndrome is the truth!
I'm so sorry or your pain. I too was with a person or 6 years that torn me to shreds and then picked me up from the ground only too throw me back down harder and further. Some say he was immature. Others said he just didn't love me. I say it was evil and probably all of what others said and a lot of what they didn't say. We have three boys together and the whole co-parenting is hard at times.
But I want to tell you something. You are not a fool. You are not any of the horrible things you think when memory recalls him to your mind. Please understand something. It's important that you really hear me honey. This truly has nothing to do with something you've done. You couldn't have loved him better. We each choose our own paths and they are hard enough to own up too as it is so why in the world would you take responsibility or anthers actions as well?
I know it hurts. It aches to breathe and you can't figure out how you ever loved someone so much that could fool you not once but over and over again. The problem is you allowed yourself to swallow the lies because you wanted to believe that he loved you as much as you loved him. Here's the hard part...that isn't loving someone. Loving someone isn't tearing them down again and again. Loving someone isn't doing all the things that occurred over 8 years of time that left you insecure and in constant emotional turmoil.
Moving on is hard. It hurts and its extremely scary. It's lonely and the one person you want comfort from is the very same that has made you feel this way in the first place.
Forgive him. For every single thing he has ever done to you. Write it in a letter or simply say it aloud when you are by yourself. You do not have to give him the letter or ever even say it to him personally. But you have to forgive him to be free from the pain.
The next part is the most important part of this...forgive yourself and start on a new journey to learning how to love yourself again. You were meant for better, you deserve better and there will be better. It will find you, I promise. It will take time so be realistic with yourself.
It's a hard road to have traveled. I've been on the same you are on. God's love and peace Grace you everyday. I pray that you will know the love that is meant just for you. The peace will come. Hold on to faith and if that's too hard right now, just know that I am holding on to that very faith for you.
After reading ur story i feel so sorry and my heart goes out for you. you been thru a lot and i can understand exactly what u feeling coz i also been very similar experiace. I can completely understand how much u want him to feel the same pain he put you in. but i think it even makes it hard for us to move on(20 months away from him but still dont feel i have moved on)
I believe in karma and i feel that one day everyone has to go thru the same they put others into.
all the very best for future (((hugs)))
I hope he does. He's not a man, but a child. What a loser, too. My hunch is that he'll get an STD. Did you overlook the signs that he was a loser?
No he has moved on!
I hear u waiting for my ex to get his he sleeps around hurts girls left and right.I'm waiting for him to get his...they never do
You need to stop worrying about his pain and start worrying about your happiness.
I Doubt it...cause you pain is your own...but you need to move on.
Maybe yes, maybe know -- but for your own sake try to move on with the next part of your life and forget about the ex, remembering only keeps the pain alive within you
Yeah, all dogs have their day.