it can be rather thwarting.
You may need to work on yourself and talk about it with your partner or loose what you have.
depending on your partner
you will get a submissive for long or he /she will flee
It won't work most properly .. You have to give people freedom if they love you they will stay if not they disappear .. Which ever it is its never easy x
It could scare someone off ...
Better to deal with your own insecurities and not take it out on others.
you get tasered
I like this spooky