Hey! That's our society now!
Messed up parents generally do have messed up kids...
The cycle continues, unfortunately.
It gets passed down from generation to generation..until everyone is messed up and then they mess up other people and it spreads like a disease..
What if you don't?
Everybody's messed up
Pretty much what people refer to as "Normal".
I once heard someone say - nobody gets through childhood unscathed- regardless