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how do you deal with the pain of knowing you're never going to be with them?
glassgirl09 glassgirl09 18-21, F 20 Answers Dec 12, 2009

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Why would you not tell them...

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Then you don't get to marry your soulmate like I did

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they'll never know.

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you get used to it

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Eh I wouldnt' now. I'm really open about my feelings no matter what its about or two who. <br />
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just tell them how you feel

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Someday that person may no longer be in your life and the chance to tell them how you feel will be gone forever. That is sad.

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I feel what harm will it do to tell someone. Don't live with you feeling inside you not shareing them. Why have them if you can't share them

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You will have regrets for the rest of your life!

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If you never tell them, they will never know. Therefore they will sooner or later be with someone else (if they ain't already).<br />
And they will never know the true intentions of all the things you say and do, and just consider it 'nice' and 'friendly' of you. They also will never know when they hurt your feelings with their actions or words.<br />
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So you choices are... <br />
Tell them and hope for the best (might still end badly)<br />
Break up the contact and never see them again (hurts, but gets better.. still no happy end)<br />
Or try to not love them anymore and instead fall in love with someone else. (I guess thats the best chance, since you said "you're never going to be with them")

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You'll never know what could be and will probably regret it. Unless actually telling them will not produce the desired effect. Better out than in. At least when its out, that's one less load on your shoulders that will be around for a really long time unless you deal with it.

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what happens is either they wouldn't know or they would think you don't care.<br />
you don't have to deal with the pain if you tell them how you feel in the first place..

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Well you'll miss out

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you know what. I finally did say something at 22.. I've known and liked him since I was like 10 or 11.. <br />
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big regret... things will never be the same between me and him.. .. he's been like a brother to me ... .. and it feels like I lost a brother and got demoted to friend... =l<br />
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lame.

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i don't know, but your question makes me sad. **crying**

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