Planning pleasure for the future...
Music is the only thing I really go to, it doesn't always help however
As cliche as it may sound, music helped me through a lot. No matter what I was going through I could turn on my stereo, blast the volume and everything would turn out okay. Music is definitely my safe haven.
sometimes forgiveness. forgive people who hurt you, but most of all forgive your past self.
Geodon and friends.
Storing it away...
Alcohol dulls the pain, except that in the morning you wake up with the pain plus a hangover.
Everything that you experience, good or bad, is part of who you are. If anything really helps, it's knowing that you know more now that you did then, and that you are probably the better, for that much, at least. Goals for the future..focus on those instead.
Music, EP and making clones of people on the sims who have wronged me in the past and making them suffer. I like putting them in a crappy house next to a swamp and dumpster and making them hated by everyone and blocking the toilets and showers and having no money and blocking the exits and setting them on fire or letting them drown or get electrocuted ;D
try not to dwell on it
art and writing
By changing the preferences and engaging ourselves in another useful and serious work.