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What hurts the Most - Getting in love and lose them or Never being loved by anyone ?

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    irdumb - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by irdumb 1 Jun 1st, 2012 at 8:56PM

    losing someone hurts the most

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12 Answers to "What hurts the Most - Getting in love and lose them or Never being loved by anyone ?"

  1. caitiebug1119 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by caitiebug1119 May 31st, 2012 at 10:18AM

    Falling in mutual love with someone and then losing them would be better. At least you would have memories of happy times of being in love. And you would know that one person loved you, there will be others.

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  2. enr778 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by enr778 May 31st, 2012 at 10:24AM

    then how about those bad memories which u got after losing them, will those bad memories not overcome those good memories... ?

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  3. caitiebug1119 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by caitiebug1119 May 31st, 2012 at 10:30AM

    Good memories of someone great and knowing someone else is out there would be better than wondering if you'll die alone. I don't know what to do about the bad memories though. There are bad memories with every sad event, so try coping the same way.

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  4. Iamybgstenemy - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Iamybgstenemy May 31st, 2012 at 9:37AM

    Being with someone who can't love you the way someone else can. Having a chance to experience love from someone else and letting them go just to be with someone who can't love you the same.

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  5. nedhe5 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by nedhe5 May 31st, 2012 at 10:31AM

    Never being loved... is better than losing it.

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  6. Unique4real - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by Unique4real May 31st, 2012 at 9:52AM

    I would say this as i am hell different even my brain works different lol :P:
    It is a way like leaving who i am in love with as having so much of laughing at or keep using words that abuse me , is a better way so losing them is not the word as i let them go and ignore as i will never keep saying or telling them this is wrong you are doing. But never been in love, i don't think that anyone neevr get in love even i been in love with the English teacher who did worse at me lol :p another story. Love then lose them is better than neevr been in love the answer

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  7. silentwriter180 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by silentwriter180 May 31st, 2012 at 9:15AM

    I'd have to say losing. I still hurt 26 years later!!

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  8. Wallygator64 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Wallygator64 May 31st, 2012 at 10:04AM

    Its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved.

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  9. cellogal - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by cellogal May 31st, 2012 at 9:31AM

    Losing it.
    I am also the one who walked away from someone who loved me and that hurts as well. It was a necessary evil but I know I caused pain :(
    Love just sucks. Period.

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  10. Honey26 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Honey26 May 31st, 2012 at 9:10AM

    Good question. A few months back, I was heartbroken and would have given anything to turn back the clock and "never have met" the guy who dumped me. But now I don't know; a life without being open to that kind of intimacy and commitment might not be a full life. I could argue either side.... sorry for not being much help here!

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  11. enr778 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by enr778 May 31st, 2012 at 10:15AM

    do you think that being in love may be just for few days gives you the memories for life and if you are never loved by anyone you still miss it and stays in this pain that no one loved you even single time?

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  12. Honey26 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Honey26 May 31st, 2012 at 10:32AM

    Yeah... quite possibly. But in closing yourself off from "love" at all, I think you would miss out on part of the experience of being human.

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  13. Indie42 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Indie42 May 31st, 2012 at 9:09AM

    Losing your love.
    At least if you've never had someone love you, you don't know what you're missing. But what a lonely existence.

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  14. eeyoresmuse - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by eeyoresmuse May 31st, 2012 at 9:08AM

    never being loved by anyone

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  15. milander - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by milander May 31st, 2012 at 9:06AM

    To have loved and lost or never to have loved at all.... Shakespeare, not sure of the play.. better to have loved and lost imho

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