Falling in mutual love with someone and then losing them would be better. At least you would have memories of happy times of being in love. And you would know that one person loved you, there will be others.
Good memories of someone great and knowing someone else is out there would be better than wondering if you'll die alone. I don't know what to do about the bad memories though. There are bad memories with every sad event, so try coping the same way.
Being with someone who can't love you the way someone else can. Having a chance to experience love from someone else and letting them go just to be with someone who can't love you the same.
losing someone hurts the most
Never being loved... is better than losing it.
I'd have to say losing. I still hurt 26 years later!!
Its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved.
I am also the one who walked away from someone who loved me and that hurts as well. It was a necessary evil but I know I caused pain :(
Love just sucks. Period.
Good question. A few months back, I was heartbroken and would have given anything to turn back the clock and "never have met" the guy who dumped me. But now I don't know; a life without being open to that kind of intimacy and commitment might not be a full life. I could argue either side.... sorry for not being much help here!
Yeah... quite possibly. But in closing yourself off from "love" at all, I think you would miss out on part of the experience of being human.
Losing your love.
At least if you've never had someone love you, you don't know what you're missing. But what a lonely existence.
never being loved by anyone
To have loved and lost or never to have loved at all.... Shakespeare, not sure of the play.. better to have loved and lost imho