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fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 17 Answers Apr 15 in Community

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That's the attitude!!! ;)

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do u do any of that?

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Nope :D I don't get invited to parties -____- and I would never do drugs or smoke. Cause they are dangerous.

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Good. That means you are not a sheep and you follow your own path.

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:) Yeap. I was worried, I wasn't sociable enough, wasn't trying to mix around etc. That's what other people make me feel. But yeah, I ain't a sheep, I am a shepherd.

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and the world is filled with the kind of people that will make you happy to be around them that don't have to drink or smoke or self destruct in any way

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You will live your life with less vomiting, cancer, and arrest records than they will?

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:) I've been told I need to go out more and all that and I start to worry whether I am isolating myself or what not. I am glad to hear positive replies from u and others.

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You don't have to do anything you don't want to. Just because you're at a party doesn't mean you HAVE to drink you know. It's possible to be sober and have fun.

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Then you are smart

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thank u. but i've been told I am boring

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You need to find other "boring" people.

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Just b yourself. Real friends will accept u the way u r

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Yup, I am hoping to find some real friends

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U will. How old r u if u don't mind me asking

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20. :)

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Yeah u will make friends. U r old enough to make the right choices

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thanks...kimmy...can i call u that?

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Yes

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age is only met by society, mentality is met by ones self

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that's a very smart thing to say

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You dont HAVE to do them.. do it if you want to only, if you dont thats good :)

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I am glad to hear that's good. Will people find me as an intentional social outcast? hmm

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Its gonna be difficult let me tell you.. I still dont drink or smoke because I just dont like it. The problem is if 50 people like it then they will be going out for drinks and smokes and you might be the odd one sticking out. They will think you are uptight which is something I was called and they might not wanna hang out with you.

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Yes, that's exactly the reason why I am asking this question. Almost all my friends party, drink booze and occasionally do drugs. I kept to my own principles and didn't follow them out despite them pestering. And they think I am such a boring, no-life kindda person. I have less friends because I don't drink with them. :( I am just wondering...

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Lol.. ya I was told to get a life and I have problems because I dont drink O_o. Its very insulting. But I think you should do what you believe is right for you. If people dont like it then well..tough. you will find friends who share your likes, maybe not 10 but atleast 2 fot sure..

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then you might end up like me.. i don't recommend it

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Like u?What do u mean? Is it a good thing?

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well just about anyone who has small conversation with me would define me an *******. not all do, but usually the people who have a hard time understanding the true value of what i am saying

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I am sure you're not an *******. :)

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i myself do not hold value in words, which makes it impossible to offend or insult me and thus i use words as the base form of communication they were invented for. i don't see the point in words being used as an attack. i grew up very fast, and thus didn't really do much of the above. i tried them a little but moved past them, i rather sit and talk for a few hours with someone

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talking is nice. :)

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So what? You have other things that make you happy. And you're rare, watch out they might put you in a museum lol

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Hahaha...I get made fun of...like "why are you not sociable.???"..but I do value other things. :)

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Yup I hv been called antisocial. I am NOT.

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neither am i.

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Then you are truly cool.

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Oh thanks. Even my parents ask me whether I am on the road to become a recluse but ...no...I just value other things. :)

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Strength. Respect.

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Thank you. :)

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it's your choice whether or not to do those stuff. What matters most is that ur happy with ur life, the decisions u make and to keep real to urself. don't do somethingjust because everybody else does. Be different. Be you. :)

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I was smiling when I was reading your answer because I am like "well, this person gets me and isn't shallow". I look down to check and it's you, Kat! Nice to meet u again! :)

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omg, yeah. Hi! :)

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How nice.

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Really nice? :)

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Yes really nice, as in great, good for you.

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You'll live longer and have fewer problems

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:) Do u think I am losing my youth? you get what i mean?

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No. I didn't start any of that stuff until I was over 18 and I had more fun without it, to tell the truth

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Thank you. For years people are telling me how I am missing out on everything. I didn't really listen to them but it did made me question myself for a period of time. Now,I am cool. :)

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Do what feels right to YOU and you'll be happier

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straight edge isn't a bad thing

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Thank you. I was just worried i was losing out in life. :(

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not at all...there is a lot of stuff that you can do without using a stimulant or depressant to make it more "fun"

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Exactly!

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I never did, tried smoking but could not handle it...

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Oh...good...:)

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You're rebellious by definition...good for u!

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Is that even a sign of rebellion? I am just a goody two shoes...:( Does that make me lame?

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Not one iota. It makes you unique. Most of them will either lose interest in their chosen poison or die from it. You're way ahead of the game...

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Then you die

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And everyone dies

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