Some friends they are. I'd almost consider it to be bullying. They are being disrespectful, but if you want things to change, you should speak up and confront them. Tell them you don't like them making a joke of your personal life.
Do the same. Find some of their dirty secrets and have ur revenge................muhahahahahahah
They ain't friends there jokes and using you for them .. Dislike this kind of stuff x
If it bothers you, tell them. If they aren't interested in listening .. then get new friends.<br />
Friends kid each other .. but there's a line that shouldn't be crossed when they know it's hurtful to you.
Well, it sounds like they're raggin' on your bf more than you - or about him for sure.<br />
One thing I learned early - be careful what you tell people, 'cause once it's out there you have no control over what people do with it... so if they are joking about bits of your personal life, make sure it's not something you yourself put out there... don't give them ammunition - not even in a denial. If it's getting to much to deal with - put on a smile and say something like- " y'all are gonna have to go on w/o me - I have to meet my (mom. boss. client. -someone they can't argue with) - or even i have to go to a meeting, or to the bathroom- take your stuff and just leave.<br />
And the other thing is to ignore what they say right in front of them, just act casual as if you never heard it, or if possible, laugh as loud as they do... if they don't get a reaction from you, then all the fun is gone for them. You may have to do any or all of this several times . Once you can be with them and it's not an issue any more, then fine. But I agree w/ the others - loose them as friends - friends don't bring you down - they support you. Go hang with people you admire because they are always so upbeat and kind - positive people. You all ready have someone like that in your life - work on those friendships more.<br />
Hope this helps... because the only one you have control over is yourself. So make your life what you want - and if you make a bad choice- learn and go on- and forget it. We have to fail in order to succeed - we don't come in knowing everything. Smile, Do that a lot and you'll get a lot of smiles back. GL
laugh it off for the most part.. I'm pretty open.. a few things, I'd get asserive about. Somethings are just private.
Dont worry at least your friends dont use you as their gay avatar asking me just disgusting questions
Just do what i do bring up things they dont like to talk about then the conversation gets interesting