What if your mother says....?
If your mother said she "wishes she'd've aborted" that you "were the worst mistake" she'd ever made, and, that she "should've killed you when" she "had the chance" Does that justify feeling depressed & suicidal. Is it wrong for me to feel so ****** after she said that?
7 Answers to "What if your mother says....?"
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She should not have said that. My mom would probably kill anyone who said that to their child.
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Ryan (My fiancee) Is ready to because of this crap...
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By the way, I while I suppose it is a legitimate reason for depression, that is letting her win. You should not give her the victory by being upset about what she says. If she says that to her child, she is probably not a very good mother, but you sound like a nice person and you shouldn't let her put you down. :). Now I'm going to go explain to someone why the war on drugs is ineffective because my brain is going to blow up from being so positive. (Not really, but everything I said sounded horribly cliché. I guess there's a reason it became a cliché in the first place lol.)
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Yeah i hv a mom who ssys that im the biggest burden on the famiky and i would be better off dead. She blames me for everything and lies about me to my dad. My dear father on the other hand is an *** who likes to hit me just for the fun of it.. And i hv a sister who basically ruined my life.. But i am not gonna give them the satisfaction of killing myself. If my existence is the source of their misery, then so be it. I shall exist and keep making them miserable. Its the least i can do.
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I wouldn't have no relationship with a mother like her
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I don't try to have a relationship with her. She calls and texts me. I can't change my phone#. Everyone I know has my current #. People I know that live in foriegn countries,
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she has problems
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Not everyone is fit to be a mother, it takes strength and what she is telling you says more about her than you.
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Well it is justified that you feel very depressed about this, but understand that you are alive now and now that you are alive and that you are beautiful killing yourself will make you like this mother that you talk about, killing yourself will deprive someone on this planet that needed and deserved your love.
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Not anyone really loves or needs me. Ryan will get over it, and find a better wife. I ain't fiance'/wife material. Just a **** up...
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no you are not a **** up, maybe ryan will get over it,but then you will find people will go crazy over you.
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my mom also told me the same before....
but u know every mom loves her child so she was just angry and just told it...
when you are angry some words just comes from our mouth unknowingly.
so i think at that moment when she says some thing bad then i'll know that she is just angry with me....
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But, She has been saying that stuff for over 20 years... As long as I can remember...
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maybe she is angry with you, ask about it...as i've known every mom donot want to hurt their child... :/
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by accomplice Feb 3rd, 2013 at 1:25PM
One doesn't need to justify feeling depressed and suicidal -- feelings simply are.
Of course, those are terrible things to say to a child. Both of those statements speak volumes about her as a mother and a person and do not reflect on you.
If you were to feel ****** about anything, I suggest you feel ****** that in the hand you were dealt, you got a pretty bad card in the mother department.
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