One jogs, the other is a couch potato.
dearly now, i am at the point to think that i think no one actually ever fit to be a parent...
even "fit" parents struggle with consistent life lessons, time, patience and being able to afford a child...there is no such thing as a perfect parent. As for unfit..i agree with a couple of things you've said.
i think it's more about about how real the love is
when you say the real world, do you mean the world of ugly truths?
but what happens to a child that has no idea how to live with beauty and grace?
envy? - and what's bullshit? - you just more or less recommended teaching children the ugly truth -i asked about the other half of world, and what happens if the child is ONLY taught the ugly truths