Maybe you just don't turn her on any more.
Life is not all about sex.
I'd like to address your post --- but I remain confused. You stated: "when his woman is no longer sexually active and has no reason to complain when the sex is g" By "g", I'm assuming you mean "gone".<br />
I'm confused about just "whom" is "complaining"? Is it you or she?<br />
If it is you who are complaining, then, as a man, I understand. If it is she --- then, I'm enlightened.<br />
Men and women are not sexually compatible. Biologicaly, men are "goal-oriented", in that their sexual agenda is to "get off". Women, however, have a completly different biological agenda. Their sexual agenda is to "bear children" and attempt to "satisfy" their man. It doesn't always work out that way. <br />
The point is: men need to "get off". Women do not share that need. They can go without sex for an indeterminate period of time.<br />
Men and women are actually not sexually compatible. Men are driven by hormones and testosterone, and the need to "get off". Women do not have that need. I'm not suggesting, for a moment, that women don't want to or need to have sex --- it's a biological differerence. However, the differentia lay in the fact that ---- in plain and simple English ---- women can "do without it". Men? I don't think so. Men NEED to "get off". <br />
To answer your question: your mate has to understand, that, as a man you have "needs" that have to be fullfiled. You need to talk to her about this. If she doesn't understand nor accept the "male side of the equation"? Then, you have a problem.<br />
I am "not inside your family nor relationship" ---- therefore I only offer (the above) as an outsider.<br />
It is you --- and you wife who have to understand the "male" equation.<br />
I wish you both the best and hope that things work out for you. Regards: Jim
There's an old saying..."men are like dogs...all you have to do is feed us and pet us, and we'll sleep under your porch forever...stop doing either of those things and we'll crawl out from under your porch and go find someone who will"...time to go someone who will!
once again...talk...or you WILL end up going outside for sex. If a woman doesn't take care of her man, another woman WILL...goes both way guys! Take care of your woman.