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What is expected of you if you are the submissive?

I am new to this and my boyfriend is a alpha male (dominant) and has requested that I look up what it is to be submissive. He said that he wanted me to greet him at the door with a drink, wear no underwear, etc.
Posted 5 months ago
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Being a submissive is NOT being a doormat. There should always be negotiation as to the roles of both Dom and sub, what works and what doesn't and any play MUST be Safe, Sane, and CONSENSUAL! Within those bounds, I think you'll be amazed what a GOOD TIME you can have!
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Posted Oct 21st, 2009 at 9:55AM
ALWAYS listen to Trouble Shooter on this IF you REALLY want tips!! He knows what he is talking about ... =)
And yes - you MUST be safe - it is NOT about beating and hurting the other person.
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Posted Jun 5th, 2009 at 5:56PM
You are expected to submit to his whims, desires and demands.
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Posted Jun 5th, 2009 at 6:06PM
The submissive has the responsibilities of following the dominant's lead and providing support to that effect.
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Posted Jun 5th, 2009 at 6:09PM
Rather than find out what being submissive means, I'd be more interested in what is is expecting as a dominant...
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