What is going on.PLEASE HELP ME?

I was with my girlfriend and living with her for a year and with her for three. one day I drunkenly kissed another girl which is the only time in 3 years Ihave doneanythinglike that.Now she has moved out wuite far away and has gota jon and is making new friends where she is and wont reallyconnect with me at all.Though she does come and see me sometimes she says she wants to grow as friends and work things out but ydoes she seem tobe rooting herself so far awayand why are allofa suddentherenew guyson the scene. am I being paronoid?? she wont let it totally end but she wont get back with me,.Is she seeing ifshe can find something better and coming back to me ifnot or is she genuinly trying to get her head straight for me. PLEASE help,Icant talk to herabout itand Ithink about her all ofthe time.Imsodepreesedabout this

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My guess, she was thinking about winding things down and the kiss, if it really is as you describe it, was just a convenient excuse.

Move on friend. I know it will be hard, but every day you waste hanging on this hook is a day you could be healing and finding a new life for yourself. That's what she's doing. You take the hint and do it too.

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yankit	Posted Jul 28th, 2009 at 2:08PM Find a new girlfriend that doesn't mind you getting drunk and kissing other girls- Get in touch with the real world. Rated: +4Vote for this!
emperorofcali	Posted Jul 28th, 2009 at 2:09PM Your timing is all off. Now is the time to start getting drunk and kissing other girls, not back then. Otherwise, it's over and it's now time to get over. In some (and maybe most) cases, once you fu(k up the trust issue, you won't soon be getting it back. Acting desparate is just the last nail you are pounding into that coffin. Don't feel bad about kissing the other girl. Things happen, people move on. She did. Why don't you? Do you really need someone who freaks out over kissing another girl when you've already proven to yourself that you have that tendency? Rated: +2Vote for this!
Tarquinn	Posted Jul 28th, 2009 at 1:16PM Just as someone else said, You lost all trust she had for you! You can't force anything back to how it was... You need to give her the space she wants/needs and you have to rebuild all that trust... Love is not a game, sometimes there are no second chances... Remember that bro... Good luck! Rated: +1Vote for this!
Roserick22	Posted Jul 28th, 2009 at 12:58PM It does sound to me as if she is moving on with her life. I'm sorry that you are so depressed about it but maybe you should also try moving on and finding another girl. I know it's easier said than done Rated: +1Vote for this!
basspla<x>y er	Posted Jul 28th, 2009 at 1:04PM You broke the trust. Sometimes it can be repaired, sometimes it can't. If you want her back it will take a ton of work and time on your part and there are no guarantees. Good luck, I hope it works out for you. Rated: +1Vote for this!
LeadLion	Posted Jul 28th, 2009 at 1:13PM Sounds like its over. Save yourself the future agony and move on. Good luck Rated: +1Vote for this!
kendu	Posted Jul 28th, 2009 at 2:02PM oh drunk and kissing another woman oh boy Rated: +1Vote for this!
SummerWind18	Posted Jul 28th, 2009 at 5:21PM What is going on is you ruined your relationship and your gf is being immature about it. LEAVE NOW, it is the best option for you boht. Rated: +1Vote for this!
rob57	Posted Jul 30th, 2009 at 9:08AM She probably realized she don't want to be with a drunk who kisses other women.... Rated: +1Vote for this!

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