First... avoid swinger sites altogether. Many, if not most are fake or undesirables.
It may be hard to believe, but the best sources of couples to play with are people you already know. Just work the conversation around to sex and sometimes, you'll be amazed at what comes out. (Of course, it often takes a couple of adult beverages). Almost all of the couples we play with had their first experience with close friends.
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