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kchz336 kchz336 26-30, M 8 Answers Aug 28, 2012 in Youth

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The pleasure pain is definitely part of it, but also a complete acceptance of your partner. Obviously it isn't for everyone because it is taboo. But it has an overwhelming feeling of completeness to it and deep love as well.

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Something about the combination of pleasure and pain at the same time. It gets blood rushing to the right places. A little taboo, a little fun.

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Partly it's the pain - pain releases endorphins into the blood which make you feel good, and are actually addictive. But it's also a power exchange and an act of trust for the submissive.

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My wife can actually have an ****** while being spanked the right way. I know that she really gets horny when I control her actions and her words while I tie her up and spank her. I have had to learn how to do this safely though since it can be dangerous when done improperly. It's bascially foreplay for some rather rough sex. I have to love it, since my wife loves it and it makes her happy.

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It is the feeling of submission.

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You are right it is not because it hurts although to be a proper spanking the sting should be significant. It is the submission to my partner and obedience of her commands. There is a fine line between an erotic sting and a nasty biting punishment sting. When the strapping is over I go to the bathroom and check my bum for marks. I want to see some stripes.

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I'm a single mom always having to be in control of everything. There is an absolute pleasure, relief and release that comes with submitting to my bf for a good spanking or just manhandling as part of our intimate relationship. He has a very laid back personality so I like being able to see and feel a more authoritative side from him. Outside the bedroom he treats me as an equal, and a princess. What we do behind closed doors is separate and special & keeps us balanced. So yes, it's definitely much more than the pain. It's also trust. I know he won't hurt me or go too far. He knows just what I need from him. :-)

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