Whichever one you don't have.
Love. If you love your job/moneymaking hobby you will makes lot of money. And love will help you raise a family. And you can love money, amaongst other things *hint hint wink wink points at groups*
Love First Then Money and don't forget as well as Diapers too!!
It's not a problem for me because I love money.
Joke! Love always, money can't buy happiness, but with love you'll be very rich in happiness.
Without a doubt it is love.