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  1. BluesKing - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by BluesKing Aug 18th, 2012 at 10:58AM

    Whatever both are comfortable with. It's nobody else's business.

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  2. Possmdillolady - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Possmdillolady Aug 18th, 2012 at 11:00AM

    as long as neither is JAIL BAIT there is no appropriate age difference. I have dated older , alot older and younger and alot younger and same age.....I settled for older I am 59 he is 70 and there are days I want to trade him in but he is too good to trade in or let go.....but age means nothing JUST A DATE RIGHT

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  3. SweetMeg - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by SweetMeg Aug 18th, 2012 at 4:25PM

    It does not matter,it should not matter. Age is just a number. It all depends on if they truly love each other. :)

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  4. thequeenofeverything - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by thequeenofeverything Oct 19th, 2012 at 6:13AM

    It has to be legal.

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  5. SimplyBeing - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by SimplyBeing Sep 6th, 2012 at 9:00PM

    okay I will assume to both are over the age of consent, and with this said there are other factors as well. in my opinion the primary factor should be level of maturity of both people involved. if for example a girl is too young and immature that you might imagine herself in love, without properly considering that sje may simply be infatuated... I think that would be a good indicator of immaturity. I will add from a man's point of view as well, if he uses that infatuation to take
    advantage of her, or avoid adding that possibilities to the dialogue, then my feeling is that he is at least as immature. the fact is adults do not start off by being in love, they begin by spending time getting to know each other dating, then if there's a good basis, the relationship may continue.
    this moves us to the next consideration, will both parties involved be able to withstanding your continual onslaught of advice by well many friends and strangers? if both parties can squarely face the negative aspects as well as positive, and managed to maintain a relationship so that love can develop, then I think the number of years age difference doesn't really matter at all. I guess my point is
    this isn't something that can be decided up front, or limited by Nate range, or even decided without facing the confrontation and discovering how you both there alone and together.

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  6. SimplyBeing - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by SimplyBeing Sep 6th, 2012 at 9:02PM

    if it is an obvious I'm using voice recognition to type for me.... Age range, not nate range... Pls overlook typos. :P

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  7. DozerDan - 66-70 years old - male

    Posted by DozerDan Aug 28th, 2012 at 7:58AM

    For most of human history the traditional age difference between an older man and younger wife was 10 or more years. The woman needs to be near the beginning of her baby making years. The man needs to have economic stability and power. That makes him older and her younger. Dating is best at about the same age difference.

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  8. IvyOrchid - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by IvyOrchid Aug 21st, 2012 at 2:58AM

    As long as both are over 18yrs old, the difference in age between two people who love each other is unimportant. :)

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  9. CopperCoil - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by CopperCoil Aug 21st, 2012 at 2:53AM

    For girls the man should be at least 10 years older for men the woman should always be at least 20 years younger. This presents problems for young men and old women, but thems the rules.

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  10. tasharyan - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by tasharyan Aug 18th, 2012 at 3:15PM

    Don't think it matter's aslong as there both comfortable n happy everyone else can go **** lol

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  11. Braunham - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Braunham Aug 18th, 2012 at 11:18AM

    Whatever both parties are comfortable with. There are no rules in our pursuit of love and acceptance.

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  12. Janife - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Janife Aug 18th, 2012 at 10:59AM

    After you have reached adulthood I would say a maximum of 15 years age difference. If your partner is old enough to be your mother or your father then it is too much. So 15 years is in European and American standards not legally old enough to be a mother or father. Of course it also depends on the ages when you meet. 20 yr old woman and 35 year old man sounds like a big difference but 30 yr old woman with 45 year old man is not such a big difference. But for a good understanding of each other maybe only a few years difference is the best say 3 - 5. My partner is 10 years younger than me. So I have the opposite situation. Older woman, younger man.

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  13. livealife - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by livealife Aug 18th, 2012 at 10:43AM

    0-3 yrs

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  14. dirtydarkness - 70+ years old - female

    Posted by dirtydarkness Aug 18th, 2012 at 10:37AM

    One they're 18, play ball

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  15. tezza333 - 66-70 years old - male

    Posted by tezza333 Aug 18th, 2012 at 10:31AM

    Anything between 25 & 55 yrs! :-)

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