What is the best way to approach a cat (stray) to pet it without scaring it?
8 Answers to "What is the best way to approach a cat (stray) to pet it without scaring it?"
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leave some food out regularly. When it becomes comfortable enough, just sit outside with it for awhile. You will develop a bond and it will start to trust you
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and hold food in hand being patient letting them figure you outLike (1)
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If it runs, then you do have to attract it with food. The others are right. Leave the food in an area where you know the cat will find it. It might be a good idea to leave it at a regular time each day. Then slowly let the cat get used to being around you. Slow is key most of the time. Sit near the cat. Avoid staring at it...even pretend that you aren't aware of it. Allow the cat to approach you. Usually, it will start wanting your attention.
We "tamed" a cat that was quite skittish and that wouldn't even let us touch her. I gave her food, and just let her be around us....I pretended not to notice her much. Eventually, she started moving a little closer to us. I allowed her to think it was all her idea- cats seem to prefer that. Before long, she was smelling my hand and allowing me to pet her lightly. Planting herself near my son and me when we were outdoors.
Now, she is almost a nuisance. Always waiting at the back door and occasionally coming in to lounge around like she owns the place. She has recently started allowing me to rub her ears and tummy. A milestone. :)
I believe that some cats are solitary. But I also think that most domestic cats prefer company. It can take a while for them to overcome fear.Like (2)
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well said!
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tamed a wild stray. show it sanctuary
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squat down to be on the same level as the cat. you don't want to intimidate it with your size..... hold your hand out and be as still as possible..... don't look at the cat directly in the eyes, and as crazy as it sounds, try your best to make a warm inviting meow
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i agree with all the advice so far.
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With an open plate of tuna fish.
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Walk up to it slowly, give it some food, give it time..
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by DarknessCalls Nov 2nd, 2011 at 11:41PM
You don't approach it, you let IT come to you.
The best way to do this is to be present, but to ignore it. Do NOT hold eye contact, that is hostility on cat language.
Hold your hand out so that it is Below the level of the cat's head. let it approach you and sniff you to get your scent.
Repeat until cat lets you pet it
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