Ask if they want to go for coffee! Then ask her if dinner is good for her. She will go if she is interested and not go to dinner if she isn't interested. Of coarse you pay the bill. If she will not let you pay the bill then she is saying she isn't ready for getting closer.
The best way to ask a good looking girl without looking like a fool? I've got one word for you dude - CONFIDENCE.
Don't ask. Suggest. And be causal like you're asking a buddy.<br />
"Hey, we should catch a movie sometime"<br />
You can feel out her response without any uncomfortablness. Her body language will say it all.
I agree with the other post, first read her body language a little and see if she is seems receptive. If you feel good about it go for it!!!!<br />
Dress as a Clown if she rejects you --at least you can laugh it off lolll
find out where she goes if you already have your sights set on someone<br />
and then if say for example you are in a que for coffee etc, give her a compliment, on anything her dress, her hair,<br />
and then make arrangements to be at the same place say if you where say with friends having a tennis game<br />
and see how things go,,because believe me if you give woman a compliment they will never forget you or the compliment,,,
Justkoz is right. When I refuse to let him pay I'm saying "thank you, nice knowing you but no thanks" which is nothing to feel fooled about, because I've had guys who ask me out on date then order their meal & look at me to pay it! So I'd pay both & delete his number on the way out lol.
Hey!!! 1-800-FLOWERS.<br />
I did it about 10 times and it never failed to have a good result. Don't send red flowers the first time.
Rule 1.) Don't even bother if she's not into you.<br />
Rule 2.) Have an interesting LIFE of your own. She needs to feel that going out with you will be fun/exciting/interesting...<br />
Rule 3.) Can you NOT ask her out instead? For example: "I was on my way to grab a cup of coffee, but would really like to know more about you, would you like to come?"<br />
Rule 4.) If the coffee is going well - move on to dinner or a movie...<br />
Rule 5.) Do not take rejection personally. If she says 'no' remember there is a world full of other women out there. (well, 1/2 full ) so move along, don't stop and stare....