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What is the best way to tell your ex-fiance you don't want her/him back to not hurt them?

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6 Answers to "What is the best way to tell your ex-fiance you don't want her/him back to not hurt them?"

  1. Dasani4ever - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Dasani4ever Jan 15th, 2013 at 1:03PM

    been there... there is no such thing you won't hurt them, but life is too short to live your life and their life being unhappy. it doesn't work. you just have to tell them the truth that you are not happy and you want out. you will hurt for awhile, and you will hurt them, but time heals and in the long run it will seem like it was the right thing to do even if it doesn't seem like it now.

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  2. MrWinstonSmith - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by MrWinstonSmith Jan 15th, 2013 at 12:56PM

    I would say be direct but understanding, and sugar coat it a little, dont just say "I dont want you back" be gentle.

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  3. Serenitree - 66-70 years old - female

    Posted by Serenitree Jan 15th, 2013 at 12:53PM

    There is no way to say it so the other party isn't hurt, but remind them that there is a reason this is an EX relationship. Things are no better now, than when you broke the engagement and wish her/him luck in the future. Then walk away. Don't prolong it. What's the point?

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  4. BigBollox - 26-30 years old

    Posted by BigBollox Jan 15th, 2013 at 12:51PM

    A bullet in the head. She won't feel a thing.

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  5. noelli - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by noelli Jan 15th, 2013 at 12:49PM

    no good way other than to tell then the truth

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  6. sumnerkagan - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by sumnerkagan Jan 15th, 2013 at 12:49PM

    Hearts have to break. There is no way to say this without causing pain.

    The LEAST painful way to do it is to do it in no uncertain terms and make it abundantly clear that your decision is final.

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