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Asked By: LadyHawke68 41-45, F  5 months ago

Then start having second thoughts and reconsider the breakup when hearing he is getting involved with another girl! This is what's been going through my mind, and I know it's straight crap! Def the wrong road, but WHY do I do this?!?

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    TIMeNIHIL - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by TIMeNIHIL Nov 26th, 2012 at 7:12PM

    ditch him.

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  1. AtleastImHonest - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by AtleastImHonest Nov 26th, 2012 at 7:14PM

    You just don't want anyone else to have him.

    But that's normal, it's the whole possessiveness that monogamy brings with it.

    I don't know the full story, but if you refused for three weeks... do him a favor and keep refusing. Because I don't think you really like him, so don't be cruel to him or yourself.

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  2. LadyHawke68 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by LadyHawke68 Nov 26th, 2012 at 7:18PM

    I completely agree, I know it's just a knee jerk reaction. I honestly don't feel I want to be in his company, I just don't like feeling what I'm feeling.

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  3. pixelbest - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by pixelbest Nov 26th, 2012 at 7:14PM

    I want you to want me, even if I don't want you basically.

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  4. LadyHawke68 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by LadyHawke68 Nov 26th, 2012 at 7:19PM

    Yes, that's the short version, LOL, thanks!

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  5. pixelbest - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by pixelbest Nov 26th, 2012 at 7:21PM

    It's an ego thing, very common.

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