What is the hardest thing you have ever done?
15 Answers to "What is the hardest thing you have ever done?"
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Paid child support for three children. The hard part was my wife had trouble rasing them, so I had the children. Took a year to get the courts to stop taking money from me and giving it to their mom. When we were loosing our house, I took the kids to the courthouse and said, "kids, tell them where you live" Didn't help, lost the house. That was really difficult.
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While going through my divorce with my now ex-wife, I had to decide whether I should try to get custody of the children. Due to several issues, her older brother and older sister both thought I should have them and they even wrote letters stating such so my attorney could have them to use during the case. Additionally, my ex-wife's best friend (they were in each other's weddings plus this friend and her husband were to get our 3 children if my wife and I died together on a trip etc... and this best friend and her family visited us on many Easter's and Thanksgiving's even though all of us had close family living) also thought I should have the children and she wrote a letter too.
This friend broke off their friendship due to all that was happening, refused to go to my ex-wife's next wedding.
Anyway, after thinking long and hard, because I didn't want to look back months/years after making my decision and think about "what if I had thought of that?" So I thought and thought, prayed, debated with friends but in the end, I decided that our children needed to be with their mother as they were only 4, 6 & 9 yrs old when we got divorced...
I did what was best for them, not for me. But I don't see how anyone can put themselves before their own children...Like (2)
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Be there when my mother died :(
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Psychotherapy
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Stay married
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wait by my grandpas side while i knew he would be taking his last breath any moment,and being away from my family for 2 years...
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Leave someone I loved because it was the right thing to do.
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Mentally??? Go through a divorce....many long years ago.
Physically? Moved 3 tons of rock by handLike (2)
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A matress
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Written a physics engine from scratch.
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Tried to get a refund for my brother
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watch my mom die
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Letting go.
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Fought for my freedom.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by hafachick Mar 19th, 2013 at 12:15PM
Wait while my son had heart surgery.
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