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What is the longest you've had a dog live? What breed? Did you have to make the dreaded decision or was death natural?

I've had my golden retriever for nearly 12 years. He has noticeably started to slow down, and I am starting to fear that he is getting to the end of the line. I am just interested to hear other experiences and how you dealt with it.

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    cheysghost - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by cheysghost Jul 26th, 2011 at 1:09AM

    I am sorry to hear that bampow.
    Most of my dogs lived to be 12 - 16yrs of age,even ones that are said to live only 12 yrs. I never kept a dog on when he couldn't walk...whew this is harder than I thought....I have had to help them along on three of my 4 legged kids, it was so hard. My friends said I wouldn't get another dog because I couldn't stand the pain again. I corrected them, I would go through that day of sorrow because I had 12-16YEARS of unconditional LOVE.
    You will know when the time is right. You will not make him/her stay on when the quality of life is not how your dog is now living. He expects you to do the hard thing, the right thing because for all those years he was there for you.
    Mine were usually mutts and big dogs one or two small ones, they attached themselves to me, but I usually go with the 40lbs and up.
    crap this was so hard to speak about, I am from my heart with sadness and support for you and your beloved Friend.

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  1. BamPow - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by BamPow Jul 26th, 2011 at 1:18AM

    Thanks. I can tell just by reading your words (and you picture is a bit of a hint, too) that your response is heartfelt. He's been my buddy and my coworker (because I work from home) for so long that I can't even imagine him not being around. He's also been around for both my kids (who are now teenagers) since they've been toddlers, so as hard as it will be for me, I know they will be devastated. Right now, I can not imagine having another dog after him, but I wouldn't be surprised if I end up with another one down the road some time.

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12 Answers to "What is the longest you've had a dog live? What breed? Did you have to make the dreaded decision or was death natural?"

  1. BobFrost - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by BobFrost Jul 26th, 2011 at 9:27AM

    I had two. A short hair Dachshund and an Italian Greyhound. I made the dreadful choice of leaving them both behind for nothing.

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  2. estherlolly - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by estherlolly Jul 26th, 2011 at 2:42PM

    Ask your vet to tell you what signs to look for. If he's just slowing down it's not time yet. On my Sheltie's last day I buy him a filet de mignon, ice cream, & other favorites & snaffles them. Then we go to beloved places of his. When we go to the vet. I hold him and tell him how much I love him, what a good dog he's been, thank him for protecting me, & remind him to keep an eye out for me because some day I'll be with him again only this time for always. Then he gets his shot, I have him cremated & spread the ashes high on a mountain in Puerto Rico where my family is from. It's always difficult. I adore dogs. I've had Shelties forever. I go through this every 15 years or so and it always makes me sad for ages. I miss every one of them. i really miss a bi blue named Riley. I still can't think of him without crying,

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  3. LifesCraziness - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by LifesCraziness Jul 26th, 2011 at 2:13PM

    Ugh.. yes I have had to make that horrible decision to put a dog down. I had an old lab that I rescued off the streets and I had her for a year before she ended up breaking her hip. Don't know how she broke it. Vet said she was so old that an easy jump off a step can break brittle bone. She was way too old to endure surgery.. Im not totally certain of her age since we found her on the streets, but she was about 12? Anyways.. I knew it was the right thing to do, but it doesn't make it any easier.
    Then this past year I had to put down our beloved pet of 14 years. We rescued him too.. he was about a year old when we found him in a park. He was a Sheltie Mix.. sheep dog. Just a big love! I raised him along with my girls. He started having seizures and they got worse as he aged. One day he just was not good... he was not able to move around, I had to help stand him up.. he could barely stand long enough to eat.. I knew the time had come. Oy.. I just hated that day beyond words. I get teary eyed now just thinking of it. I stayed with him while they gave him the shot and I cried and cried. I just lost my baby.. our family friend.. he was so dedicated and loving to us all. He was just a fantastic dog and a true companion. He will forever live in our hearts. My oldest was so super sad.. he was her sleeping buddy! Anyways.. Im feel your pain entirely.... those pets become family and we love them like our kids! Just enjoy each and everyday you have with him ... and if and when you have to make that decision, know you are doing it with a loving heart. Hugs xo

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  4. hardenedhart70 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by hardenedhart70 Jul 26th, 2011 at 12:31PM

    Just this past year I had to take our 10 yr old American Pit to get him put down. We had been battling with his cancer for almost 6 months and the doctor said that there was nothing he could do for him. Give him pain pills make him comfortable. He stopped eating and and lost alot of weight. Even though it was my husbands dog I had to do the deed, I had to look into those sad loving eyes just before the doctor gave him that shot, I had to take off his collar and leash and leave paying the bill knowing that I wouldn;t be back to pick him up. I felt and still feel terrible wishing that something could have been done, being haunted by his sad eyes. But I also know that he is at peace and not hurting anymore makes me feel a little bit better but not much!! I told my husband that we are not getting another dog after his passing, can't handle that much heart break anymore...

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  5. EricS - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by EricS Jul 26th, 2011 at 7:53AM

    My old Bird Dog which was a German Short Haired Pointer lived for 15 years. He was dumb as a sack of hammers, but the most loving and sweet dog ever. His name was "Mo". He also had the best muscle structure I have ever seen in a dog. And I've had various physically imposing dogs. One in a million he was.

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  6. katnipkitkat - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by katnipkitkat Jul 26th, 2011 at 7:09AM

    We have had several dogs. Mostly larger breeds. All of the dogs lived fairly long. When they started getting old and developed disabilities my parents usually chose to put them down. But me, I will try anything to keep them alive. If you have seen an animal die naturally you can really see them trying their hardest to keep breathing. One cat we had developed a back problem and lost control of his back half. My solution would have been to get one of those pet wheelchair like things and just keep him cleaned up back there all the time until it was really his time to go. He was otherwise healthy. But my parents put him down without even telling me about it. A German Shepherd we had also developed problems in his back end. He also kept going in and out of a kind of semi-conscious state. We tried everything for him. Even acupuncture. I am willing to do whatever it takes to try to save my animal because I know they like their life. Unfortunately some people don't have the money to try everything. The best case scenario, which happened to one of my cats who had diabetes, was that one day he just died in his sleep, curled up on his favorite chair by the pool. I think I could only support euthanasia if the animal was in great pain with no hope of recovery.

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  7. caseygee - 70+ years old

    Posted by caseygee Jul 26th, 2011 at 2:57AM

    I had a dog, a little muttley, a little bit of each in him. He lived till he was very nearly 21. One of his companions, (I had 4 living together all rescued dogs), a Doberman, ???? cross, was 18 years when I had them put to sleep together. That was truly, one of the saddest days of my life. The other two of the group were both GSDs. One 12 and one 14. I had both of those put to sleep. That was sixteen years ago. I then went on to have two more rescued dogs together. One a GSD and the other a Border Collie. The GSD was a real problem dog. Nobody could get near to her, without her wanting to attack them. It was so bad, that I used to get up at 3.30am, and take her for a walk through the woods and along the beach in the mornings. That way, she could have a run off the lead without meeting anyone. She was the real Love of my life. She was put to sleep 4years ago last March, and my Border Collie passed away 4 years ago today. Both 12 years old.

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  8. caseygee - 70+ years old

    Reply by caseygee Jul 26th, 2011 at 3:02AM

    PS. I really feel for you right now. Sadly, you have a lot of heartache to come. Whatever decision you make, just be sure, that it is for the best for the dog, and not through any selfish interest

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  9. childcalledit - 18-21 years old

    Posted by childcalledit Jul 26th, 2011 at 1:34AM

    Princess was a spitts and cocker spaneil mix, but she looked like a small golden retriever, she was 14 when we put her to sleep, she had arthritis, and cadaracs. she couldn't walk to go outside to the bathroom anymore and she laid and slept by her dish so she didn't have to get up anymore. my cousin was very close with our dog and she was more heart broken that i was when she heard she was being put to sleep.

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  10. shaepastaqueen - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by shaepastaqueen Jul 26th, 2011 at 1:10AM

    We had a Dauschaund (sp?) that lived to be 16. We also had a cat that lived to be 21. The cat was older than me.

    We also had a German Shepherd that was 10 that got cancer and had to be put down. It was either put it through treatment which meant having one of it's legs amputated with a slim chance of recovery or put it to sleep.
    My parents opted for the treatment and all it did was prolong his suffering. Given the chance again my parents would have put him down straight away.

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  11. BamPow - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by BamPow Jul 26th, 2011 at 1:21AM

    There's no way I would let him suffer if it gets to that point. RIght now, he's just getting slow to get up, and some times he even opts to just stay on his bed even when people are rustling around in the kitchen, which has never been like him. If he gets to the point where he is in pain, I won't prolong it for him, but there is a part of me that really hopes that decision is taken out of my hands.

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  12. chipperchick - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by chipperchick Jul 26th, 2011 at 1:09AM

    I had a cinnamon hcow for 8 yrs, and he came down with lymphoma..so, i had to make the dreaded decision..I waited until he couldna eat or drink anymoe, cause he c=acted the same, but, when he couldnt eat, oy, my faughter and i took him to th evets,,If i had known then, what i do now, I would have bled him myself, and he would have just got to sleep..the doctor brutalized him

    I had him cremated and he is stilll with me!

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  13. sharossody - 70+ years old - female

    Posted by sharossody Jul 26th, 2011 at 1:09AM

    our first pet, (after we were married) was 16, she lost the use of her back legs, and as winter was upon us, and she, after being an inside dog, wouldn't come in to the house, we had to help her go to the Rainbow Bridge..... she was an Australian Silky Terrier... grew up with the kids and a big part of our family.

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