The language he uses when he gets mad.And his tantrims he throws, and that he is always late to everything.
I went to a class ab getting along with your spouse...I was wonderful, helpdul, and useful... :0) The teacher said say there are 10 thing you won't let bother you, BUT DON'T pick though 10 things...when he does something that annoys you just say to yourself thats one of those 10 things and walk away...and guess what???? IT REALLY REALLY WORKS...like a charm.
I'm one my own because I can't tolerate much at all these days.
snoring all night long
get grouchy for unknown reasons
OMG, this drives me nuts...he watches other people like a hawk, then reports to me whet everyone is doing, wearing, saying, etc. I keep telling him it's none of my business, trying to deter him, but he just turns around and continues.