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What is the most difficult decision you have ever made ?

I had to choose between my great chance to act in an intl short film & my coming graduation... If I chose the first one,, I had to drop my study for a semester .. (I really wanted to but my parents rejected it) ... Finally I did not accept that job ,, Still I believe everything happens for a reason ... Im on my way
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the day i broke up with my soulmate...i remember i stayed up all night writing the things i would say to him...i finished it and crumpled it up and uncrumpled it over and over again...i loved him so much...i was afraid he would someday leave me....i wanted to keep my heart safe...his mom didn't approve of me because of my race...he wanted to marry me and have kids....how could we be happy if his mom kept feeding negativity about me to him...he said he would cut her out of our lives...but he was her only kid...i couldn't do that to her as much as i wanted to because she didn't like me..for something as ignorant as the color of my skin....i opted out to save my sanity....i would not be able to bear it if he ever left me...so i left him first...now i am haunted by the last words he ever said..."tell her I love her,..she's my true love..and always will be...i want her back...i'll always love her"......definetly the hardest decision i ever made and one i regret the most.....
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Posted May 18th, 2009 at 11:26AM
Letting a loved one make mistakes because you knew that it would be the only way they were ever going to learn.
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Posted May 18th, 2009 at 7:42AM
leave..
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Posted May 18th, 2009 at 6:52AM
well it's easy just write the thing that you love for spain and then for london and then which ever row has the most things in is what you chose
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Posted May 18th, 2009 at 6:53AM
what to eat for lunch in that day - I'm not joking

I'm Thai, we always have our lunches at a stall or a shop which is called "Arhan Tarm Sung (Food as you Ordered(whatever it is))"
you can order anything, seriously "anything". I once ordered "pasta" for fun, but the cook went inside, put it out from the fridge, and microwave it for me!. MG

That's why it's the most difficult decision I've to decide everyday. Tiresome, though.
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Posted May 18th, 2009 at 6:53AM
I am 18 and he is 20 years older then me



i met him at my best m8z 18th bday party, he is his uncle..he was sooo sexy i couldn't bring myself to resist.



we flirted soo mch that night, i was quite drunk tho but i remember it, i kept bumping into him and having small chat..



He asked for my number..and i gave it to him!



alot of his family members were there but none of my friends did , they were all drunk!



he is sooo sexy and im jelous of his wife for definate..but then he contacted me..



we talked about the strong sexual attraction between us, the constant eye contact, the lil chats..



now we text everyday without fail and we will talk on the phone at least once..we done everything but sex. he is my first for everything and i want to go all the way.



i know its wrong in everyway possible and we tlk bout it all the time..but thing is i dnt want it to stop and neither does he. he never hs told me or forced me to do anything.



We are so open with eachother, like i get pissed off when he dont call me or text..i think im addicted to him..



the sexual loving and attraction is like a fire ablaze..



the way he touches me,licks me,tastes me,kisses me..sheer sexual extacsy..



im not in love with him, and even if i was it not like theres anything else that can happen cos im best m8s with his nephew and he has family and hes nearly 20years older than me!!!!!!!!



i love the fact that we are building memories with one another,and when were together there is noone in the world that knows..



after ever call and text we delete all dialled numbers and everything..he is saved as a girl on my phone..we need to protect this..



as mch as it is wrong i can keep away..hes so sexy..the sexual side of it is amazing but he even talks to me bout everything else too..you name is we have spoken to about it and i feel so comfortable with him..



hes my first kiss and everything !
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Posted May 18th, 2009 at 7:57AM
Decisions, decisions... The most difficult (recently) has been "Which philosophy of Life should I follow?" Its difficult because both of them have their logic, and neither of them are clear to me what will be the end result of my choice; because there's simply Not Enough Information to KNOW.

I probably won't know until I pass from the physical world and can see the effects of my causes, and then it will be too late to benefit from that in this embodiment. SO MUCH is hidden from us while we are veiled in the physical... Its like we are in a smoke-filled room, having to feel our way through life, unguided by sight.

But of course there will be other opportunities to embody... trouble is, you forget what went before, largely.
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Posted May 18th, 2009 at 8:05AM
Leaving my hometown where I lived with my parents after my marriage broke up..I wanted to get on my own.
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Posted May 18th, 2009 at 8:11AM
Leaving a cult and my family
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Posted May 18th, 2009 at 8:53AM
Flip a coin. While it's in the air, the way you wish it to land is the decision you should make.
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Posted May 18th, 2009 at 8:54AM
i'm still thinking about in it's leaving this world
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Posted May 18th, 2009 at 9:02AM
I had to decide whether I thought it best to go full-term with my baby girl who had anencephaly. I chose to be induced early(23 weeks gestation), that was the hardest decision I have had to make.
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Posted May 18th, 2009 at 11:21AM
Deciding to become a parent.
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Posted May 18th, 2009 at 11:34AM
staying in a bad marriage for the sake of my children. it worked out great for them but i am still paying the price for it two years later.
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Posted May 18th, 2009 at 12:43PM
Its hard to choose between two things. 1.) should I leave my marriage? which I did eventually. 2.) where to go for my doctorate degree. East coast or west coast? Inretospect, I would have followed my heart rather than my head on that one.
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