Lmao!!! Now you're really going to be bombarded with emails Sungirl. Here's my ground rules with friends with benefits. Treat each other with respect, kindness and understanding. There must be complete trust in that both party will protect one another from physical and emotional hard. Friends first and always.
In a perfect world. I like your answer though. :)
It doesn't work for me. If I haven't got any feelings for a person then I lose sexual interest really quickly.
Doesn't work for me at all. Meaningless sex is...well...meaningless.
It beats being married without the benifits.
Dunno, but, i want the benefit part only, we don't have to be friends. Let's just call it "booty call"
If my friends don't come with some kinda benefits then we don't stay friends for very long.
(insert wicked sexy smile)
I always thought a friend with benefits was a guy that had some tools I might be able to borrow.
I think I like your interpretation better...............lol
I think it should be socially acceptable to be friends with benefits. I dont find it degrading as I feel that its stepping stone to sexual and personal freedom. That is where the World is heading. Everyone wants freedom to practice and do what they desire without being tied down by commitments. As long as people understand that sexual needs and urges are normal things and people should give and take the chance to practice it with respect, i dont think there would be much problem. Personal Safety is still important! So yep, thats my answer
Same as a booty call
well, not really, when its a booty call, you only hear from the other person when u want sex.
I say this on the subject:
Any "LEGAL" activity that, "ANY WILLING ADULT," wishes to do with another willing adult is fine by me.
You can call it any name you want, I call it two people enjoying each other.
it works if both of you just want fwb, have done it before and will do again if/when i'm single but it can get complex
Loving it , Don't catch feelings and have fun .
I need to get one i'm thinking
If you want, go for it! My opinion won't change your perspectives.
Never met anyone that said they could not keep emotions out of it yet
I can keep emotions out of it, but equally, without the emotions I'm only interested a couple of times and then I'm done. Obviously, with someone I care about I can go the distance! :)
great in theory but much like mfm or fmf relationships someone always develops more feelings then the other and gets hurt
If I wasn't married (happily) I would be all over that concept. As long as there was that understanding, it leaves freedoms I never really had prior to being in relationships ... it wasn't really part of the culture I grew up in.
Never been in that position so really cant comment.