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What kind of friend is she?

My 'best' friend is getting married next year. Today she asked me if I would un-invite my husband. She doesn't like him because he made her tool of a fiancee mad. No one likes this guy. Anyway, I think it is pretty crappy that my so called 'best friend' would do that to me.

What do you think?

{I'm sorry. I should've provided more detail. I am the Matron of Honor for this shindig. Her fiancee is an convict. He stole money from her, beat her to a pulp, killed her cat-I could go on but what's the point?- not to mention, he proposed to her 2 days after he moved in with her. He moved in with her 2 weeks after he met her on MY SPACE. He can't hold a job and when he met her, he had been divorced for six weeks. My husband, on the other hand is a Sergeant in the U.S. Air Force. He never did anything to her fiancee, except over a year ago he asked her fiancee why he bought the kind of car he bought. The fiancee took immediate offense and all hell broke lose. >

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You answered your own question: she's the crappy kind.

My 2 cents: Get as far away from these two losers as humanly possible. This woman is no "friend." I would tell her that if your husband is uninvited, then so are you, and to take the hideous bridesmaid's dress that you would inevitably have to wear and shove it where the sun don't shine.

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AshMeadow	Posted Jul 18th, 2009 at 8:08PM That's ridiculous! Why did she invite him if she was going to un-invite him anyways?? Rated: +2Vote for this!
midlifemadness	Posted Jul 18th, 2009 at 3:23PM That's is your hubby... to do that is insane and rude!! You are putting "up" with her fiance even tho you don't care for him. She should be willing to do the same for you. Are you in the wedding? If you are just attending, I would say I'm sorry, I care about you and wish you the best, but if he isn't invited, I wont be attending either. If you are in the wedding, I would tell her you are not comfortable attending without your hubby. You are a couple!! You either all need to accept each other, good and bad, or the friendship is not going to last. good luck Is she a bridezilla? LOL Rated: +1Vote for this!
littlelaydee	Posted Jul 18th, 2009 at 3:52PM Sounds like you may be the best thing thats happened to her if her family agrees with her to be with a guy like this. You want to be there for her naturally because shes your friend, but it sounds like nothing but problems. You need to get tough enough to say what you just said on EP, to her. Tell her you don't agree with the way this guy treats you, and that you are committed to your husband and you wont go without him. Obviously, there are going to be more problems. This is like a lose/lose situation. Sometimes you need to be a little selfish and stand for what you think is right. Rated: +1Vote for this!
trails	Posted Jul 18th, 2009 at 3:53PM Because it's not your friend not just marring herself,things will not be the same at this time,let her have this time in what she wants and most of all needs.We get angry because we don't understand,your friend is not doing this to hurt you, it is just the way it has to be ,she has on other choice. Just love her for this day of total happiness and wish her the the best,you will find, you will always be the best friend she ever had, this is something that will help you in your walk through life.We all feel left out many times in life each time we understand more.Best wishes to your friend on her day!She is blessed to have you! Rated: +1Vote for this!
Presariox	Posted Jul 18th, 2009 at 5:08PM I think she is a type of friend who you should support on her wedding day. If your husband dislikes this guy he isn't going to feel left out by missing the wedding anyway. As you said its your best friend and you may not agree with her decision but she may be doing it to keep the peace with her future husband. Sometimes we don't have to understand just accept our friends decisions. Rated: +1Vote for this!
gloriajean238509	Posted Jul 18th, 2009 at 5:12PM i would tell her if she wanted him uninvited she could do it herself and while shes at it find a new Matron of Honor because if he is uninvited so would i be Rated: +1Vote for this!

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