The perfect lover would be a girl that showed up at my door with pizza in one hand, beer in the other, and told me her fantasy is to blow me while I kill zombies on PS3.
Another human being preferably.
someone who never takes the relationship for granted.
Empathy , patients , intelligence and most of all depth and wisdom.
What makes a good lover in my opinion is when Both individuals are more concerned about satisfying the other and aren't thinking about what they are going/getting out of it. To give is to receive. Then it is a win, win!!! Because both of you are more intent on satisfying the other, not worrying about yourself and it just unfolds into something that words can't explain. There is nothing better, in my opinion! Your not expecting anything except for the joy you feel knowing you made your partner happy, which in itself is exciting. Then to top it all off their intent is the same but you are not worried about yourself, so have no expectation. It is something that has to be experienced to be understood, hopefully ALL have!!! It is in my opinion the best part of sex! THE BEST!!!! Okay I have to go see my partner now ; ). Not home yet, he'll be glad you asked the question, I am sure...LOL ...Thanks for asking the question!!!
Everyone must be approached differently.
By understanding your lover's deepest desires through some one on one conversation in a quiet place. It takes a little time but by establishing a powerful mental connection the physical aspects of showing your love will fall into place. She'll become slowly aware of your sexual power through the eyes and subtle your movements. My own method is intense, but tender, and methodical.
come ova hea i'll show u ;-)
ewwwwwww I had to go the egotistical jerk route. You never get to see that side of me. It's nice to role play every now and then!
my boyfriend and i waited for three months to have sex. at that point all we had was conversation, and he became my best friend. Their was a strong desire that build up, and i was deeply in love with him the fist time we made love.
What makes a lover good?
He is very good orally, so i see stars.
he listens to me, so he is my best friend.
we even talk about our love making, and that honesty made it even better.
he knows my body and knows what i like, because i told him what feels good or not.
Someone who is telling you how they feel about you with their body as you do the same.
A good listener, an open heart and a tender touch