Lack of self-control. Lack of maturity. Not a real man imo.
he's a bully and a scumbag. wants to keep you under his control.
There are many reasons, none of them good. There is no justification for abuse whether physical or psychological. Being raised with abuse does make it likely that the former victim will will become an abuser. This was true in my case. But even that can change with the right help. I do not recommend staying with an abuser, recovery is a long road for them.
I will say this, it takes a lot less time tio heal from physical wounds than it does fro psychological abuse- in mst cases, there is no complete recovery for the latter. I was abused physically, sexually and psychologically. It is the psychological wounds that haven't properly healed- primarily because society is abusive to damaged people, and the only healing for psychological wounds is love. Society would have me dead or to make me an abuser again, but it would never want me to be completely healed and functional again. The difference here is that 50% of my abusers were women and that I was young and helpless, not an adult with a choice. This was my "Government approved family" after my mother was forced to give me up. She was abused by them before I was born.
Some people are douchebags.
Low self esteem
There is never any reason for violence. The behavior is learned, usually from the parents. In order to stop it you have to stop the cycle of violence. Whatever you do you don't want to stay in an abusive relationship EVER! I mean leave NOW. Lest you become a statistic. Get help, go to a shelter, there are people that will help you.
she says to many times im not in the mood
The need to dominate.
Narcissism and being weaklings. Within their small little minds there is only them and anyone who opposes or challenges them will be dealt with in a physical way.
Most women beaters will not get into a fight with other men. They are normally a "man's man". They see women as possessions, inferior beings, not on the same "level" as men and as such will not be challenged by a woman at all.
i might just .... go sit over there on this one
funny how they never try that on outside with males huh?..its always someone they cant lose to
raised that way is my guess. had a father much the same
he is sick
he wants to show his power over the woman
An abusive woman
Because he is an ignorant fool