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What makes a man really jealous when I've done nothing to cause it?

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    Philreads - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Philreads 1 Dec 16th, 2012 at 6:24PM

    Sometimes it's idea that maybe in his head.
    Talk with him discuss with him
    About your relationship and friends .

    Don't hide things away .

    I know I am guy who gets jealous

    and hurts and not good for relationship .
    That's life

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9 Answers to "What makes a man really jealous when I've done nothing to cause it?"

  1. LadyDiana65 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by LadyDiana65 Jan 10th, 2013 at 5:13PM

    memories of what the woman who broke his heart did to him that are triggered by the simplest & most innocent things you do. It's not your fault....it is how men are built. They tend to judge their future g/f's based on what the past ones did to them. It sucks....i know. But only a real man will see what he is doing to your relationship when you call him on it and either get help for it or learn to leave it in the past...where she is. Tell him that in order for your relationship to work and to be healthy and strong....he needs to judge you based on what YOU do not on what SHE DID. Best of luck!

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  2. Bushkeeboo - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Bushkeeboo Jan 19th, 2013 at 4:49PM

    I think this is true in our situation actually. Someone did break his heart a long time ago & I guess he is expecting it to happen again.

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  3. Ialwaysgotyourback - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Ialwaysgotyourback Dec 16th, 2012 at 5:10PM

    Guilt for something he has done is usually the answer for that kind of jealousy

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  4. Snappyway - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Snappyway Dec 16th, 2012 at 5:05PM

    He's insecure. Or maybe you have done something and don't realize you did. Do you have guy friends that maybe he is jealous of?

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  5. iwalydg - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by iwalydg Dec 16th, 2012 at 4:52PM

    Perhaps the two of you don't have the same idea of what "cause" is. Probably a good idea to talk to him about that.

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  6. roastlamb - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by roastlamb Dec 16th, 2012 at 4:46PM

    Mental problems

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  7. Bushkeeboo - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Bushkeeboo Dec 16th, 2012 at 4:41PM

    Thats a bit harsh, do u think so? He definitely isn't mental as such

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  8. roastlamb - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by roastlamb Dec 16th, 2012 at 4:45PM

    Well there's a issue with what's going on with in his head I use have a girl friend that was driving me mad with insecurities even if I went shopping with her and the shop assiant asked if I needed help she would behave funny

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  9. Darksideofme255 - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Darksideofme255 Dec 16th, 2012 at 4:44PM

    It could those stained panties you left in the back seat

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  10. Rolle2323 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Rolle2323 Dec 16th, 2012 at 4:41PM

    That's a red flag....and you should be turning around to run. It not only means he is insecure, it means he will be controlling, suspicious...and you will be in for all sorts of emotional abuse.

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  11. Bushkeeboo - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Bushkeeboo Dec 16th, 2012 at 4:43PM

    If he wasn't jealous then woudn't that be worse?

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  12. Rolle2323 - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Rolle2323 Dec 16th, 2012 at 5:13PM

    ???? Some women...primarily those who in for a lifetime of heart-ache....believe that the gauge of their own desirability is their ability to drive a man wild with jealousy. They believe that if their man is not jealous, he does not care. However....here is where the mental health issue comes into play....you used the words "REALLY JEALOUS". You also said you had done nothing to cause it. So....do you want to hang out with psycho man? Or end it and go and meet someone who has normal responses?

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  13. expo67 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by expo67 Dec 16th, 2012 at 4:40PM

    His insecurity.

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