Kindness. Doesn't matter how smart, beautiful, or etc. a person is if they have no kindness and are cruel.
A paperbag large enough?
_puts my flag in the ground- RALLY TO ME! There. That's how it's done!
There are so many aspects to attraction and everhbody is looking for something different. There are people like celebrities and such where a high percentage find them attractive but even then when you know somebody is 'beautiful' you might not necessarily find them attractive. Some people are attracted to obese people. No matter who you are somebody is always going to want you. Most people are attracted to confidence but still some are not...maybe a mental illness that makes you attracted to someone who hates themself, maybe not. Pheromones play a huge part, you might like somebody from afar but then you get close, something puts you off.